This guy has really been trying to get me to help out with a human rights organization. He claims he needs my help, yet he is not trying to get anyone else in the group to help. For some reason he has singled me out. I have been real slow replying to his emails, usually waiting at least 24 to 48 hours to reply back. When he sees me in public I have been telling him I am real busy. I think it is driving him crazy, but I think it is working. Do you think it makes guys like you more if you play hard to get?
2007-09-22 17:14:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont, to me its a waste of both peoples' time. If you really are busy its one thing, but just to play hard to get? Nah. But some guys do like it tho. It represents a challenge
2007-09-22 17:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are not that complicated. Relationships are not that complicated. Making it complex and participating in dating rituals and games just makes everything more difficult. Stop browsing in life and start participating. Go for what you want and don't make it silly or foolish.
Let's say you have this relationship where you play at being unattainable. Then, in two months you're attainable. Let's say he was only intrigued because you were unattainable. Suddenly, you're not very interesting anymore. Then you have to spend the rest of your life being slightly unattainable--one foot out of the door.
Why not be straight your whole life starting right now? Believe in yourself. Trust yourself.
2007-09-22 17:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by CHARLES T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if he likes you in the first place. If he does, then play hard to get if you want. But if you play hard to get for too long, he's gonna move on girl. It doesn't make guys LIKE you more if you plan hard to get, if makes a guy (in most occasions) WANT you more. There is a difference. LIke they say, you want what you cant have.
2007-09-22 17:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i don't. When i think the girl does'nt like me, i give up trying to seduce her and become only friend. How to know if it's the girl really don't like you or just want to play hard to get, it's impossible.
2007-09-22 17:45:37 · answer #4 · answered by GNU/Vegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may, but be careful with how hard you play .. because if you are too distant with him he may just go to someone else and ask for help! it seems like you've given him enough distance already, and yeah it may be working with him because it could be driving him crazy inside! so maybe now is your chance to say you're free to help him out, but don't be "too free"... act as if it isn't your main priority but you'll be able to fit it into your schedule.. good luck! :)
2007-09-22 17:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by mb_8800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so,but not to ignore him totally,coz if he gets tired of you,he might look for someone else that can give attention or can help him,he'll not be interested on you.atleast a hint that he can get more attention from you, cheers!
2007-09-28 20:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ashley babe youve answered your own question havent you!!! of course it makes them like you more and yes you are driving him crazy! good girl and keep up the good work, am proud of you!
edit: ok, read the other answers, get your self a copy of the 'THE RULES' read it, then read it again, make it your bible, your already doing it, but i just want to let you know that your doing it right and how to make a way of being, again, you go girl!
2007-09-22 18:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only works when men ignore women. If you ignore a man he will divert his attention elsewhere...this is why men cheat. Well part of the reason anyway.
2007-09-30 17:09:43 · answer #8 · answered by Wicked 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's part of being mysterious for a girl.
2007-09-30 11:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to an extent, but boy if your playing tooo hard to get then a weaker man will stop and move on
2007-09-22 17:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by not_ON_the_CRAK ;) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋