okay there is this buy i reallyyyy reallyyyy like...alot.. and well he used to like me but not im pretty sure he doesnt..ive tried asking him before if he does but the answer is alwase the sam..i dont know.it just feels like hes mentialy crushing me or something...
but anywase... simple question..
what do guys look for in girls? how do they think the girls should act..i know it depends on mainly the guy but like idk...i just need help...
2007-09-22 17:08:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry i soo ment boy... :]
2007-09-22 17:13:01 · update #1
okay..now to go into the story...im gonna try to make this as short as possiable...okay..we liked eachother for a while...then finaly he asked me out..of course i said yes, but he had just broke up with his gf the following week..so the next day he broke up with me "only" because hes not that kind of person to date someone after they just broke up...and also he was not "ready for a relationship" but he says that he WILL ask me out in another week or two..adn suppobaly he really likes me..sooo..they next week starts but we dont really even start really talking untill like wendsey but then we kinda start flirting ..but i am also noticing him flirting with other girls...so when the football game comes my friend (who is standing right next to me) says "you should ask her out now!!"and he nodded his head yea..but later after school we were flirting more than useal (kissing hugging ect.) so ofcoure i get all happy.. but after wards hes all like hell no to asking me back out.so im depressed.
2007-09-22 17:26:46 · update #2
oh yes..i for got..he is grounded..so maby his mother said no..well no nothing because he also got his phone taken away..that rarly ever happens..also..yea i think he is kinda of a shy person..im mean he asked me out over a ******* text message..come on man..all of his friends told him to grow some balls..so yes..i think they do know him a lil better than i..so maby i do not know?
2007-09-22 17:40:43 · update #3
oh okay..uhm but what if ..lets just say the girl really bugges you? im not sure..but thats what i might be doing?
2007-09-22 18:23:41 · update #4
think about what qualities you are proud off, the things that you feel make you interesting and attractive. Now focus on them, don't pretend to be interested in a football team just because he is, you'll get caught out.
Guys like an attractive girl, now i don't mean a stick thin girl with eating issues and i don't mean moby dick(the whale).
Look how you look, just take pride in your appearance. Don't try to look like someone you think is sexy, just dress nice, and walk proud. But don't go over board and start to look arrogant, that just puts a guy off and comes across as intimidating. And no one will ask you out.
if you think he liked you once, then he probably still does, you asking him, 'oh do you like me?' will probably make him feel on the spot and vulnerable.
Come on, you know how it is. He is unsure how you feel about him and he doesn't want to be embarrassed and put himself out there like that.
So, what i am saying you don't have to ask him out, just tell him that you like him and ask him, 'why don't you ask me out sometime?'
That way he knows how you feel, you haven't asked him out and if he likes, he will ask you out coz all the fear of asking someone out and not being sure what they will say is out of the window. He will know that if he asks you out, you'll say yes so if does like you he will. if he doesn't he won't
Hope that help, good luck and let us know how it goes.
Woo Hoo!!!
2007-09-22 17:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by mohsinmalikuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys have different tastes so your guy could like anything.
Just act normally.
I know that many people have destroyed their relationships by pretending to be someone they not really are.
Pm the details if you want.
It's not possible to solve it with the info you've given.
2007-09-22 17:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy is different but i guess in general it comes down to personalty and physical apperance. Sorry for the dry answer, but thats all i can say.
2007-09-22 17:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by WWJD? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl should be herself. Nobody wants a fake person. Speaking for myself i want a girl who is smart and funny, and attractive.
2007-09-22 17:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes down to this:
Is she worth putting up for based on how hot she is. Personality is bonus.
2007-09-22 17:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Squarepusher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joyful, always smile, don't act like a b-word. Be attractive as well.
2007-09-22 17:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
women/women individuals are normally bi-curious, and arent afraid to precise thoughts to a minimum of one yet another. They hug, kiss, flow to the bathing room collectively, and stuff like that. yet whilst adult men do it, it particularly is incorrect, and gay.
2016-10-19 11:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by finnigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like girls who know how to spell boy not buy
2007-09-22 17:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by i know it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you. for me, once i have a crush on someone, it never goes away. the only way it would is if she did something really horrible to me.
2007-09-22 18:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Richard C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow- you question and avvie are exactly like mine! When I get some answers and give you some.
2007-09-22 17:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋