then completely change a few months into it. I want to think theres more to it then they got the laid and now its boring.
2007-09-22 17:13:50 · 16 answers · asked by LADIDAH 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha thanks but this is not a personal question. Im not talking about me im single. but just in general.
2007-09-22 17:23:18 · update #1
Sometimes that is all there is to it sadly. I do not like the fact that guys lie just to get sex. Just be honest from the beginning. You still get the sex but none of the drama. At least thats how it should go lol.
But some guys just get scared I think, of being in a commited relationship and they not ready. Thats another possible reason
2007-09-22 17:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but maybe it's something that you're doing if that's the way things end up with you and different guys. Any time you have a circumstance with two different people and the end result is the same, it's probably due to the one common factor that doesn't change, and in your case, that would be you. Examine the direction your relationships go and from there you may find the problem. When you see the problem then you can make a change for the better.
2007-09-23 00:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the girl changes, or their perception of her changes. One or the other. Men want the girl/woman to remain the same as the girl/woman they had at the beginning of the relationship, or to be the same as the girl/woman she presented herself as. She can become more than this as the relationship progresses, but she has to still have that part of her that was at the beginning. That's why men get frustrated or disappointed if she pretends to be a certain way at first then drops the act later, or if she was skinny and kempt and then becomes fat and sloppy. If she was those things in the beginning, then the guy would have accepted her as being that and it wouldn't be a problem if it continued. But if she becomes that and leaves behind completely the person she was or that she pretended to be, then it is.
2007-09-23 00:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one it could be boredom cuz face us guys have a short attention span when it comes to woman, 2 it could hes doing it to you impress you cuz for the most part guys know how to make a woman fall for him they know the the right things to say especially a guy who likes to listen the patientlly wait while you tell him every thing he needs to know then after hes gotten what he was waiting for he'll show you his true side, guys like that suck pretty much sorry to say but you'll deal with quite a few. the most rare is he might not notice it guys have a habit of forgetting the lil things, so let him know and if he gets pissed at you it means he wasnt worth your time in the first place so kick em to he curb and move on. GOOD LUCK and not guys are bad just most im sorry to say...i think it has something to do with maturity...
2007-09-23 00:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, they're putting a lot of effort into making a good impression at the beginning. Once they're comfortable, they don't put as much into it. This is a generalization, but sweet talk makes most guys feel stupid (at least the ones I know.) They'll do it to make you happy or make a good impression but, if they can get away with it, they probably won't do it all. If you want the sweet talk to continue, you'll have to prod the guy into keeping it going.
2007-09-23 00:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by CincyCat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know, sometimes u just have to trust ur own instincts. Guys are simple. Sex is pretty much all they want. Some just want sex...one night stands...others want more, u know, get to know u, ur likes, dislikes, want to take u out to dinner, etc. Some will even marry u and take care of u and all that stuff. Doesn't mean they don't love u, or care for u, or like u, but they do want sex..somewhere in there.
In ur situation, yeah, he wants sex. HE feels two months is long enough of him sweet talking u. He feels he knows all he wants to know about u. This is just enough time for him to not feel bad, or icky for having a one night stand...because hey, he's in a relationship. HE knows her name, what she likes etc. But having sex probably won't keep him around long term either, because it might be too soon for a long term committment. But wait, u don't want to put out? What? AFter he's been so nice to u for two whole months? Well...he's mad now, he spent good time and money on u..he made his investment, now it's time for u to pay up. Maybe being a jerk would help...because there are many girls who like bad boys. Sorry, ur instincts were right, he only wants one thing. right now, and it's sex.
2007-09-23 00:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once u lay a girl u keep sweet talking to her unless u set romantic notions in her mind just to get into her knickers. usually girls go with romantic notions when they give their bodies for marriage in their future plans.
But if its casual sex as in a guy is a player or vice versa and she is just another girl he/she regularly beds he will sweet talk and treat you like a princess always.
Hes not being mean. Hes being a friend.
2007-09-23 06:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not more than that, you twit!
Don't be stupid, when you (and them) get a little older, it'll make sense to you.
For now, keep your legs together. The only thing you'll be losing is the losers.
Your day will come and it will be a guy who likes you for who you are and is capable of getting a good job. Save yourself for him.
2007-09-23 00:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Carl R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning guys are trying to impress you and show their good side and hold back their bad side. Once you figure out all their quirks and faults they stop showing off so much.
2007-09-23 00:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by aiden 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe the guy doesnt like you that much. boys like that are not worthy. they just sweet talk you and always cuddle you to get your heart! when they got you... they think theyre your property
2007-09-23 00:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by Angela Faith Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋