Family & Relationships - 22 September 2007

girls think i am an asshole and conceited -- how do i change that [honestly]??

-- a strategy is greatly appreciated (even if it is unethical, etc) ... any ideas are good =)

2007-09-22 15:51:46 · 5 answers · asked by J 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 27 I constantly have men telling me how great I am how attractive (I measure 40-30-44 so i have all the right cuves in all the right places) that i am a great person(what ever that means) but none of them ever stick around. In the event that they give me a reason before they just disapear it is ussually an its not you its me.
I wonder a)why can't they give me real reason so i can do something about it and b) if I'm so great why on earth can't find a decent man??????????

2007-09-22 15:46:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do if it's hard for me to tolerate them. When I found out he has them ( what happened 6 months after we met) he said they are not going to be in my life. And for a year he didn't see them. But now he has to see them every 2 weeks and I feel like walking away. But I can't leave like that. i want to spoil boyfriend's life for what he put me through.

2007-09-22 15:45:19 · 26 answers · asked by Vero 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if she gained alot of weight over the years

2007-09-22 15:43:10 · 16 answers · asked by lauren j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend, she is my age, and i've know her since i was like 3,(i'm now 16) She and i were really close up until we were about 10, our parents were friends and we would go to each other houses, and im pretty sure we had a crush on each other, since then we havent been that close, but we talk in class, all the time, and she laughs at my jokes, and sort of sits by me in class, though just enough not to seem like it, she mentions are past sometime, and she will touch my arm sometimes, and gives me a hard time on things as do i, we dont really talk outside class, but i think that is because i dont try enough, i am also sort of friends with her friends. What do you think Thanks

2007-09-22 15:38:25 · 8 answers · asked by yankessrok! 1 in Friends

Okay, so I fell in love with a man that was married twice before. He would always tell me he didn't think my family liked him because of his past (both ended marriages was the result of the woman cheating), that he didn't deserve me, that he isn't that great. I fell in love with HIM despite what he thought of himself. But our relationship didn't end up working. He started to get verbally abusive with me when I would do things that his ex use to do.. innocent things, like calling him on the phone just to say hi. He use to call me just to say hi, but in time, it stopped and then he got mad at me for doing that. I was in love with him.. I loved to hear his voice..wow...what a sin. Anyways, He also got mad over the fact that I got stressed and emotional with the thought of my neice dying. So, I probably should've listened when he said he didn't feel worthy, huh? Has anyone any experience in understanding divorced men in this way? He had a chance to be happy with me. but no... he got mean.

2007-09-22 15:31:06 · 11 answers · asked by Jess 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 26 and my fiance is 30, we are together 4yrs and i want to know what way's i can make her feel sexy, i want her to feel special and to make her know i am happy with how she is. any compliments or things i can do?

2007-09-22 15:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my girlfriend are trying to work things out again we have alredy tried but she always ends up cheating on me but i really do love that girl but i dont know what to do.we have a little girl together and i want to be a family but im scared that she is gonna cheat on me again she has already done it alot of times before and i always come back to her and this time she kicked me out of our apartment to let her parents move in.but she tells me that she still wants to be with me what do i do???

2007-09-22 15:23:01 · 12 answers · asked by Gilberto P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is devistated. THeir wedding is in December. Long story short, it was a nice, quiet wedding, reception/brunch, now it's ALL OFF. Something horrible happened and they're broke. They'll have about 3 grand and that's it. They'd still like a ceremony and reception. Any party planning people out there who have some suggestions for her?

2007-09-22 15:18:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

like some girl said she only date black man, I admit some black man are fit, but so are some white, asian or who ever tickles my fancy.

so why only 1 certain race?

2007-09-22 15:15:37 · 15 answers · asked by April 3 in Singles & Dating

This makes no sense to me.

2007-09-22 15:14:01 · 14 answers · asked by Pirate's Lady 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean abstinence is just such a bs thoery. Saving yourself for love? Youll never know what that is without giving it your all. I believe in love, but its unnatural to deny the things that make us human. Im ****** tired of hearing these girls think they know everything and they have no clue. You cant judge something unless youve done it. Anyone else think the same thing or am i crazy as hell?

2007-09-22 15:12:22 · 2 answers · asked by pogieboy316 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is right if someone tells you not to do something but then someone in higher authority sort of demands you to do it or tell them to do it? Like I mean, say a friend tells you not to tell your parents that they do or watch something and they want you to promise then your parents ask you about it? Should you tell them or not? Would it be sinning????

2007-09-22 15:10:57 · 9 answers · asked by ~Living4HIM~ 4 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We went out on about 4 dates and on the 5th date I received some news. He told me that he was married and has four kids. They live back in mexico. We had dated about a week; I really started liking him and receiving this news was very shocking. I told him we wouldn't be able to see each other anymore. However before he got out of my car he asked me for a kiss. Crazily I kissed him for the first time and it was AMAZING! I have never experienced a first kiss like that. I gave in to going back to see him the next day and we continued the relationship. Unfortunately it was easy for me to block out the truth of his situation. Because he was here; I could see him everyday and his family was in mexico. He moved back to mexico to see his kids. We were able to text but his wife found the phone and saw all the messages. She is furious. He only calls 1 x a week & I am here waiting for him. I have fallen in love with him, but I don't know if I should wait

2007-09-22 15:10:44 · 11 answers · asked by Jess26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay well me and this guy lets call him kid, well kid and i have been flirting ever since i met him, he smart and smokes weed, but an all round cool guy, well like two weeks ago he asked my friend str8 up if i liked him, she said yeah, and all he said was okay, last week kid and i were flirting and flirting like crazy when he asked the question he told me my friend told him i liked him and he asked me is it true. i got ooberly shy and said No. he just sat there and said okay, and it got all awkward the next day it was as if i didnt know him, but the day after it was okay like flirting alittle so what do i do? shuld i tell him i do like him? but i dont know if he likes me....im lost.

2007-09-22 15:06:00 · 11 answers · asked by loserface 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands like that and it drives me crazy or I feel I need to ask him this some time

2007-09-22 15:05:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My family is sick i got some really good advice about it and now I am asking if i should tell them or just avoid them untill I know that they are no longer sick.

2007-09-22 15:05:06 · 3 answers · asked by malibu8769 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My name is Juanita Valencia Williams. I am named after my grandmother on my mother's side ( Juanita) of the family and her cousin ( Valencia) and just know I found out that my grandfather on my dad's side of the family his cousin's name is Juanita and my grandmother also on my dad's side of the family, her cousin's name is Valencia. Strange and both of my parents have the same last name, so my mom, dosen't have a madien name, awkard or just weird, very weird.

2007-09-22 14:53:44 · 3 answers · asked by Orange Juice 2 in Family

I have looked at some sites where it shows it is a sin of incest by marrying your sister in law, if your wife of that sister has passed away. But this is a different case. It would be really awkward to bring this to my local preacher, but I will if I have to.

2007-09-22 14:53:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I were making love last night, and she began shouting out "oh Tupac, Yes Tupac!" She has never called me that before.

2007-09-22 14:52:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Chat on yahoo or msn?

2007-09-22 14:51:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend broke up after a 10 year relationship. Will I ever find true love?


Broken Hearted

2007-09-22 14:48:04 · 1 answers · asked by Ryan S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been living with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years now, and things have got so bad i just dont know what to do anymore. When we first met it was obvious we were so into each other and couldnt keep our hands or thaughts off of each other. But as time has gone on, he gets angry at me at little things like putting somthing back in a wrong place. and that seems enough to ruin the rest of our day as he will start bringing up past things iv done that he hasnt approved on and then i get angry at him im it then just spirals out of control! i didnt see him for 3 months at work and when i came back he didnt even seem like he missed me. he turned over when bed time came. and didnt even kiss me goodnight. He doesnt make me feel like a woman anymore. I know that im quite good looking but it seems he;d not attracted to me anymore. He has an erectal disfunction which iv stuck by him through..but it doesnt seem like he even cares for satisfying me needs. it feels like he doesnt love me anymore...

2007-09-22 14:46:27 · 16 answers · asked by zxcvbnm 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like dis guy more dan ill ever love ever again but he say im immature just because i am to shy around him an do stupid things me n him dont talk but because he chose not to hes heard things about me n judges me for no reason,he cant see me at all cause he says i bug him i love so much dat no matter wat he does ill b there 4 him even tho hes a promblem in my life should still be there when i've heard so many things of me an knowin i have no chance with him he things my friends hot an hes sprung of this other chick an hearin all dat i still love him.wat should i do.

2007-09-22 14:43:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-22 14:42:15 · 60 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-22 14:40:44 · 2 answers · asked by Dancer3d 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today we were visiting with my hubbys brother and his bro could possibly be going on a trip to Africa... like a business trip. He would be gone for possibly 4 to 6 wks. My husband looked at me and said in sortof a joking manner, hey, I asked him about how much money they paid for supervisors there, and so I maybe going too. I joked back with him about it, and asked him later if he was serious. He said he had asked about the pay,but he said nothing about whether or not he was serious about the trip. Now, here's the deal. I am perfectly fine with the idea that people go on business trips that take them far away. My issue is how he acted like he was gloating about it..almost like haha, I may leave you and the kids and go there. If he had just mentioned it without that haha tone, it wouldn't bother me. It is 1 thing to say you may go, but another to gloat about it in my opinion. Do I ask him more about it since tomorrow is our anniversary? I feel hurt that he said it that way. Thanks.

2007-09-22 14:37:23 · 4 answers · asked by ShineOn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

me a ring. he makes over $100, 000.
Should I move on????
He has a nice house and no bills. His house is 1/2 paid off & we have no kids.
should I leave?

2007-09-22 14:36:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm thinking about divorcing my wife. I'm 30, she's 28. No kids. What financial impact? Will she get my $? Emotionally I can't handle her anymore and i'm thinking of divorce, just curious of the financial impact.

2007-09-22 14:36:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-09-22 14:34:50 · 65 answers · asked by †ღChristian♥Girlღ† 2 in Singles & Dating