i am 26 and my fiance is 30, we are together 4yrs and i want to know what way's i can make her feel sexy, i want her to feel special and to make her know i am happy with how she is. any compliments or things i can do?
2007-09-22 15:28:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you want things to happen in the bedroom, look at how you treat her out of it.
Do you make her feel loved, attractive, desirable? Do you pay attention to her, listen, be with her, even when sex isn't on the cards? Or is the pressure to have sex on, all the time?
Can you touch her, stroke her, tease her, just for her pleasure and not for yours? Do you KNOW what it is that she likes, what turns her on?
Do you help her out? Are you sharing chores? Are you looking out for ways you can make her life a little better?
Are you attentive to her when out with others? Do you do things that you both like? Do you speak to her, and of her to others with love and respect? Do you allow others to disrespect her?
Are you sure she's not too tired, stressed, overwhelmed?
For a woman, sexiness starts long before we hit the bedroom, it is in the everyday things, and in how our partners make us feel.
2007-09-22 15:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how sexy she is to you, what you find attractive to her and be as honest as you can. Be orginal. Compliment her everyday and when she is dressed up or not dressed up. Flattery they say will get you everywhere with some woman but really be honest. You know she is sexy so tell her. Compliment her on her outfits, hairstyle, and the like. Take her out and show her off giving her full attention over everything and everybody else in a respectful and sincere way. Go above and beyond for her.
2007-09-22 22:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank you sooooo much ! You reinstate my belief that there are still good men in this world ! The biggest thing you can do is tell her how you feel. If you think her hair is sexy SAY IT ! Tell her how wonderful you think she is or maybe a personal thing she does. Say it with honesty and she will believe you ! I promise . By telling her what you feel and what she does or doesn't do that turns you on will have her thinking she is the best thing in the world. How lucky she is to have a man that cares !!!!! I wish much luck to you my friend ! Hey wait a second do you have a brother ? ....lol
2007-09-22 23:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Christie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers! Just because--it doesn't count if its a birthday or something. They do not have to cost a lot--get a bouquet from the grocery store. Every time she looks at them she will smile. Backrubs are nice too! Washing the dishes for her would also be a nice gesture.
2007-09-22 23:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Compliment her a lot. My husband compliments me on my body a lot and he touches me a lot. Stare at her and tell her she is beautiful. Tell her you like her hair. What ever turns you on about her tell her.
2007-09-22 22:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when she not dressed up or anything
catch her just right
and just look at her
and when she goes "what why are you looking at me like that" say "youre just so sexy" or beautiful
but the trick is
you have to mean it
shell know
so basically when you think it
is when you say it
2007-09-22 22:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by jes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel . talking to her shows you care and lets her know how you feel about the two of you. .
2007-09-22 22:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so sweet! How about showing her this page and your question?
2007-09-22 23:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dolly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aawww...lucky her!
2007-09-23 00:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋