girls think i am an asshole and conceited -- how do i change that [honestly]??
-- a strategy is greatly appreciated (even if it is unethical, etc) ... any ideas are good =)
2007-09-22 15:51:46 · 5 answers · asked by J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start by shedding the self-centered arrogance and deceit. Developing sincerity, truthfulness, integrity, and humility are your only hope. You don't need a strategy, you need a transformation of character.
2007-09-22 16:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by run?imn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to use an unethical strategy you are a conceited asshole. If you want people to perceive you as a nice, caring guy, then you really need to be a nice, caring guy.
2007-09-22 15:59:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dan H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls think that? Are you? You can't change from one day to the next. What I strongly recommend is that you whenever you hear a chick call you an asshole, that you ask her why she thinks that and see what they tell you... I don't know the whole story so I don't know if it's you or the girls that call you that...
2007-09-22 16:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by N3N@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're willing to be unethical I'd have to say their perception is correct. You need to be yourself, honey. They can smell you coming because you are what they think you are.
Since you seem to be a creep at heart i would suggest counseling.
2007-09-22 15:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Dawnmarie K 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well first of all stop being an asshole, plain and simple.
think about your next move
"if an asshole would do/say this, do not do it"
2007-09-22 15:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by EA12 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋