I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We went out on about 4 dates and on the 5th date I received some news. He told me that he was married and has four kids. They live back in mexico. We had dated about a week; I really started liking him and receiving this news was very shocking. I told him we wouldn't be able to see each other anymore. However before he got out of my car he asked me for a kiss. Crazily I kissed him for the first time and it was AMAZING! I have never experienced a first kiss like that. I gave in to going back to see him the next day and we continued the relationship. Unfortunately it was easy for me to block out the truth of his situation. Because he was here; I could see him everyday and his family was in mexico. He moved back to mexico to see his kids. We were able to text but his wife found the phone and saw all the messages. She is furious. He only calls 1 x a week & I am here waiting for him. I have fallen in love with him, but I don't know if I should wait
2007-09-22 15:10:44 · 11 answers · asked by Jess26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This man is still married after two years of dating you? If he really wished to pursue a serious relationship with you, he would have divorced her, and if she was able to take his phone, he's obviously not trying to find other ways of talking to you. Of course she is furious, he moved away (probably lying to her about why) and cheated on her for two years, and then moved back. You said moved, back, not visiting. Time to let this one go and move on with your life.
2007-09-22 15:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know you are wrong to have a relationship with a married man,,,especially one with FOUR children! How can you love a man who is cheating on his wife? If he gets a divorce and makes you his next wife, he will cheat on your next. You can count on it. He's the cheating kind. Run away as fast as you can before you break up his marriage, take his kids away from him forever and then ruin your own life waiting for the day that he cheats on you! Really. He will. Don't be naive.
2007-09-22 15:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he's trying to have his cake, and eat it too. If it's a divorce in the works, then his "soon-to-be-ex" wife shouldn't have a reason to be upset. If the kiss wouldn't have happened, it might have been easier to let him go. Don't put yourself into a strain, emotionally. He has to choose....either you, or his wife and "4" kids. You have to tell him that. But can you live with that?
2007-09-22 15:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go! he has a WIFE AND KIDS! Don't continue to be a home wrecker. Think about it, he cheated on his wife with you and he will probably cheat with someone else on you if you stick around. Some women are crazy and will find you and beat you up about there husbands, LET HIM GO!
2007-09-22 15:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on without him. What are you doing messing around with a married man? As soon as you heard the news, you should have stopped seeing him!
2007-09-22 15:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lies to you,hidden his situation,he will lie to you eventually,a good kisser or more dosent make for a trusty man.He has to fix his situation and then he could do try to meet another women,believe me you be better without him,but is up to you,is your life and if you choose to share it with a lier and a cheater.Good luck.
2007-09-22 15:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by jose f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wait for a guy that went back to his wife? Stop waiting and find a guy that doesn't have all the baggage.
2007-09-22 15:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say what goes around comes around and from the sounds of it your boyfriend has no commitment to anyone but himself. he's had the best of both worlds for 2 years. even if he was to leave his wife and children what makes you think he'd be faithful to you. unfortunately this was forbidden fruit and he knew how to play you. don't you think you deserve better!
2007-09-22 15:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by cloudy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go, honey. He will only bring you the same pain he has brought to her.
2007-09-22 15:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by RAVEN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on because if you don't he will find another.
2007-09-22 15:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by wlknwtr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋