This makes no sense to me.
2007-09-22 15:14:01 · 14 answers · asked by Pirate's Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's the excitement the forbidden fruit we all have it in us but we know better then to act on it. Your husband was missing something in the marriage something he felt he wasn't getting from you. Please don't take what I'm saying the wrong way I'm not blaming you,it's on him for not talking to you not letting you know what he was missing. Some people will say you should of been more open to different idea in the sex department. Sometimes sex has nothing to do with a husbands wanting out of the marriage. If he loves you he will come to his senses but if not you will have to let him go he will find his way back to you.
2007-09-22 15:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, it doesn't make sense.........He's going to find that out eventually too. But by the time the excitement of the on-line relationship has fizzled out (about 6 months or so I'd guess), you'll have started to rebuild your life, and your confidence....Looks like he's been cheating on-line for some time, so it will happen again in the future.....Let him go, he's not worthy of you.
And if the universe unfolds as it should, perhaps he'll find that his on-line beauty is actually a 60 yr old washed up has-been or never-was!!!
2007-09-22 15:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by cautious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the old the grass looks greener on the other side situation. When you are having problems in your relationship its easier to turn to someone you dont know or do know and start confiding in them. It seems like you and the other person have all kinds of common interest. Its easy to get caught up and sucked in when that person is not the one you are going through financial hardship with or family crisis. Its fatuation and the you are still getting to know the person. All relationships are good in the beginning. You will eventually have problems in the new relationship. Hope he comes to his senses before its too late.
2007-09-22 15:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sugastack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what happened to me ( except I was in relationship for 14years). My already ex-wife hooked up w/ that guy on one of on line dating sites, and started cheating on me thereafter). It's been 2 months since we separated and in process of divorce. My life is ruined now and I still can not figure out how can you throw relationship out of the window after such long period of time. I wish I'd never had internet at home. I'm strong believer now, that internet ruins lots of marriages nowadays:(
BTW: Is he just chatting or been involved physically and emotionally as well yet ?
I'm wishing you good luck and try hang in there.
2007-09-22 15:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by halo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most internet relationships are just illusions. Once you meet face to face or set up housekeeping, the real stuff comes out. It is hard to do a relationship anyway. So, an internet is not any easier. It just starts looking like it may be easier.
2007-09-22 16:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not make sense. Give me a BREAK! You deserve better than someone who can so easily be entranced by someone on the internet.
2007-09-22 15:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now a days, people meet online & sometimes they fall in love instantly. It's unrealistic to most of you but it does happen. But if your married & been for 8 years then I guess your not happy being married.
2007-09-22 15:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky,you find a good excuse to move on,dont stay with that kind of untrusty person.Good luck
2007-09-22 15:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by jose f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's so ridiculous to me! 8years of marriage for an on line relationship that probably wont work out!
2007-09-22 15:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by In love! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's just done with you. he is unhappy. Just try and tlk to him calmly. find out what he's unhappy about. let him go if he wants. We cannot control any person in this life. Good luck sweetie. You'll be OK..
2007-09-22 15:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by RAVEN 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋