Family & Relationships - 22 September 2007

things at home are getting tougher and tougher(family issues) and i am a college student and it's too hard for me to study at home ! i also have a part time job too and when i come back home libraries are closed so im thinking of moving out for like 2 months until things become better ! is it possible to rent a small place for 2 months ?will u plz give me some information?
THANKS !!!!

2007-09-22 19:04:30 · 2 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Family

My partner and I have been with each other for 31/2 years. I have always told him of my intentions to have children and I got the impression that he wanted to have children. After about a year, I started to talking to him seriously about children. He kept saying not yet we can't aford it, your not ready yet etc. After a while he then started saying after we get married and buy a house. After 3 years he proposed to me and we have bought a house. He set the wedding date for february next year.

Is he just doing what he thinks is the responsible thing to do? Is he really that ignorant that he can't see that this is killing me? or is he just trying to put it off for as long as possible because he doesn't want to have children?

I find it hard to believe that he doesn't know how badly I want children.

2007-09-22 18:57:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

iv got the school holidays on now and iv got two weeks off its sunday of the first week i was was planning to spend time with my gf for the first week because I'm going to be away for the second week anyway her mother is sick and she isn't feeling well either I'm obviously worried about her but i cant do anything about it.

i had an accident this morning, a fire broke out in my garage and while trying to put it out i got burned pretty bad on my arms a little bit on my face and on my legs, I'm going ok now still burns but I'm resting with burn stuff on.

the two weeks are going to be pretty **** without my gf im used to seeing her nearly every day and spending time with her i can't to anything because of the burns i can still talk to her over the phone and stuff but it isn't the same any advice or just any ideas of what i should do, any advice on either my gf or what to do to speed up the burns healing would be greatly appreciated.

iv already used alovera and burn stuff.

2007-09-22 18:45:49 · 1 answers · asked by Nevermind 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

that you look through your window and see a lott of people you know and see them with candles and walk toward somewere ..and i go follow them to see were they are going and see a swamp and see how people go in the swamp and yell to get out immediately .. orelse the people who go inside wont be able to get out because realllly bigg talll strong guyz pull you and dissapear...then people cover me and i cant really see good but then i fall in the cornewr of the water swamp and i saw my mom who i get to see every year...naked running to the swamp and i scream for her to get out immediatelly!!! and see when she doesnt get out and the big tall strong gyz pull her and i scream but other people scream for her to get out and she finally gets out...then i woke up..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-22 18:45:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

THis is the second year at this new town. im a soph this year and I havent found a really close friend yet. Most of the people here have known each other since like the second grade and its hard to find friends who are willing to let me in to best friend territory. I know i dont need a best friend, but i want someone other than my family that i can confide stuff to who i know will keep a secret. i like this guy alot and i want to go out with him but be in a relationship that involves romatic friendship instead of just kissing around school like other couples.. i know its a weird question, but how can i get closer to him? friendship-wise. i have one class with him, p.e. he plays varsity football, i play b-ball, we both have 4.0's and he's really cute strong, and not immature one bit. how can i get closer to him??

2007-09-22 18:25:33 · 25 answers · asked by starstudded07 3 in Singles & Dating

How do know if I am crazy, or going crazy? I have a beautiful blonde wife, a 55,000 a year job, 3 cars and a great bank account, but I think I am going nuts. How do you know if you are?

2007-09-22 18:22:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl and I don't know if she likes me and we flirt alot, but what kind of compliments do girls like to hear?

2007-09-22 18:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my dad's friend is coming over for a barbeque tomorrow. He told me that he was going to bring his 13 year old daughter. He also told me that his daughter thought that I was hot, but was to shy to talk to me. Can someone please help me out. I need to figure out how to make her less shy around me. I'm 14 years old, and the reason that her dad told me this is because her dad and I are really good friends and he thinks that I am suitable for his daughter.

2007-09-22 18:16:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiancee wants the traditional Wedding March song etc, but we would like to find a different version to the typical one. I heard a piano version and guitar version once and they were both beautiful but I have no idea who played them, so can't get a hold of the CD.

Does anyone have any recommendations?

2007-09-22 18:13:23 · 8 answers · asked by GW 1 in Weddings

i am 13, and EVERYBODY, i mean EVERYBODY is dating. I like this guy, and he likes me, but if he askes me out, i HAVE to say no. : [

can you tell me why YOU think they wont let me have a boyfreind?

2007-09-22 18:12:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

did u crash and burn? r u still together? do u still love them?

srry im just wondering cuz im BORED OUT OF MY MIND

2007-09-22 18:10:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, SO HERE'S THE PROBLEM. I REALLY THINK MY BOYFRIEND IS INSECURE, AND HAS A REALLY HUGE GUARD UP OVER HIS HEART. OK, WE ARE CRAZY IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER.I REALLY WANT US TO GET MARRIED SOMETIME IN THE NEAR FUTURE, HOWEVER HE ISN'T SO ENTHUSIASTIC ABOUT THAT IDEAL. HE'S SCARED OF DIVORCE AND THAT IF WE EVER DID GET DIVORCED WHAT HE'S WORKED SO HARD FOR WILL BE GONE. BUT I'M NOT LIKE THAT, AND IF I'M GONNA GET MARRIED IT'S GONNA BE FOREVER. BUT HE'S EXPLAINED TO ME, HOW HE'S BEEN HURT IN THE PAST AND DONE DIRTY.SO I REALLY SEE WHY HE'S THE WAY HE IS, BUT I WISH HE WOULD JUST FULLY TRUST ME AND SEE I'M DIFFERENT FROM ALL THE OTHERS. AND I KNOW HE LOVES ME FOR A FACT, AND HE KNOWS I LOVE HIM.BUT HE ALSO STILL ASKS, WHY I LOVE HIM SO MUCH, AND I LIKE MADE A LIST ABOUT A MONTH AGO OF JUST SOME OF THE REASONS WHY I LOVE HIM, SO I'M JUST LIKE GAH! WHAT ELSE IS THERE TO DO TO PROVE IT? YA'LL, I WANNA MARRY HIM SO BAD. I WISH HE WOULD AT LEAST GET ME A PROMISE RING FOR NOW. I NEED ADVICE!!!!

2007-09-22 18:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been hurt emotionally, by my dad, half sister,and a few other family members...I really feel like I should wipe them out of my life by not talking to them or seeing them anymore? I really don't feel like talking to them is going to help them understand how I feel. What do you all think I should do?

2007-09-22 18:01:59 · 7 answers · asked by skky 1 in Family

My daughter and her boyfriend recently went to the courthouse to be married by the J.P. so that they could "go ahead and live together." Now they are planning a church wedding which is going to be about 2 months since the actual "J.P." wedding. While I respect their reasons for wanting to make it "legal" before living together, I have never heard of re-doing the whole thing (rings, etc) only 2 months later. It seems kind of awkward and not sure what to tell guests. And what day should their anniversaries fall on? Both ceremonies? I realize that these days pretty much anything goes with weddings and I want my daughter to be happy, but has anyone else ever heard of this? Thanks!

2007-09-22 18:00:57 · 7 answers · asked by mysti 6 in Weddings

I like this girl who is a freshman. We click well, we both are in the high school band. We hang out a lot. I'm just wondering if this would be frowned upon or if anyone has been or is in a similar predicament.

2007-09-22 17:58:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-22 17:57:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

0kay, so are guys more intersted into girls who worry about their weight, keep on a deit, no as smart, kinda mean.
Or
girls who relle dont care about deiting just if there healthy, samrt, nice


???
& do u guys find it attractive that girls act dumb, my friend does it, and i tell her its just not being herlself but she thinks it gets her more attention from the guys

2007-09-22 17:55:35 · 3 answers · asked by kristen. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i do dancing, yoga, netball
i can cook and clean
i am a model
but i am short.

are these things ..hot?

2007-09-22 17:54:48 · 10 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Singles & Dating

i was seeing this guy for four months and we didnt do anything sexual, however found out he has a gf and it ended. his gf forgave him and we didnt talk for a month, he started contacting me again saying he miss me. we have been hanging out but he has a gf. they have been together for 5 years. if he wants to make things work for them then why is he talking to me? we arnt sleeping together so why???

2007-09-22 17:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she passed away this morning unexpected, and we don't know how to tell them . they keep asking for thier grandmal. please help!

2007-09-22 17:46:04 · 20 answers · asked by trblmmmy 2 in Family

2007-09-22 17:45:47 · 15 answers · asked by some1 strnage 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy and is known for a player and i recently went to a dance with him and he held me closely and looked in to my eyes and said he loved it when i smiled so i blused and he kissed me on the lips and help me tighter then he touched me i pushed away and said why do u wanna just mess around and said to stop and we ended up fighting and he got mad and kissed another girl and today he calls me and says that i need to have more fun and he flirts with me still and im falling for him i dont know what to do and i told him never to touch me like that and he agreed and i really do love him and he even apologized for the way he acted. i really want him to be with me but i dont know how to get him?
he is very mysterious, gets what he wants, is a football player, a amazing person in bed( wat i heard) but he says im beautiful but he cant have a girlfriend i need help im in tear over him. what should i do and say to him????

2007-09-22 17:36:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am overweight and very self conscious...i was wondering if i will be able to get a boyfriend even though im overweight.....it seem as though nobody wants to go out with someone who is bigger......and how can i get past being overweight and quit being so shy? please give me some advice...no rude comments please

2007-09-22 17:35:29 · 20 answers · asked by jean_12592 1 in Singles & Dating

I caught my friend having sex with her dog. I was so disgusted i ran out the house . I want to turn her in but. No one would ever belive me what should I do?

2007-09-22 17:32:00 · 2 answers · asked by miss_love c 1 in Friends

that she has good boobs or a ss?

if she hasn't one of those, are you happy? or you will look for someone more?

if you are girl, do you feel complex about those part of you body, if you dont have?

Just opinions.....

2007-09-22 17:30:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't think I'm that obese. She won't let me make love to her unless I drop 50 lbs. I would only be about 275 lbs then, and I don't want to lose that much. I don't want to get too skinny, being 5'6. Is she being unfair?

2007-09-22 17:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by guyitsover14 2 in Singles & Dating

I have two roommates. I'm friends with one of them.
The other hates me and is completely obsessed with my friend.
She has a lot of self-esteem issues and can be paranoid.

She refuses is talk to me or even acknowledge my presence in the apartment. The only time she does say something, it's to complain about something I "apparently" did.

She and my friend (the other roommate) don't get along to well either. She is always belittling my friend (calling her stupid etc.) and will only engage in a real conversation with my friend when it's about her.

Every time my friend leaves the apartment, the crazy roommate calls her to see where she has gone.
It's gotten so bad that now my friend can't leave the apartment without telling pyscho where she's going.

The roommate acts like an obsesssive girlfriend to my friend eventhough they don't like each other. I'm treated as the non-existent being (or an apparent threat when I decide to chill with my friend)

What can I do?

2007-09-22 17:29:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm attracted to guys a lot older than me, i'm 16 and i think the idea of being with a college (and older, under 30) guy is really hot...
maybe it's the rebellious aspect that makes me attracted to them- i mean they're around my older sister's age and i know a guy that old would worry my parents... but i don't know--

or is it normal?

2007-09-22 17:28:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like a guy who I have been talking to for a least six months. via phone i chat and text. I know long distance realtionships R hard so I tried to go on dates to get him out of my mind, but then I compare the dates to him and end up losing interest very fast.
When I 1st started talking to him he was coming out of a looong relationship so we really hit it off as friends not trying to be more- but we now like each other alot. I guess I want to know based on the info I gave u should I wait to see where this can go? he's coming to my state in 4months.

2007-09-22 17:26:34 · 5 answers · asked by musiclovermogul 1 in Singles & Dating

I told my BF I don't care about his money because I love him and I would never take his money. He is an Asian and I wonder if he cares if my family has more money than his family. I am afraid to ask him because I don't want to let him think I care.

2007-09-22 17:22:18 · 2 answers · asked by kobeis_awesome 1 in Singles & Dating