THis is the second year at this new town. im a soph this year and I havent found a really close friend yet. Most of the people here have known each other since like the second grade and its hard to find friends who are willing to let me in to best friend territory. I know i dont need a best friend, but i want someone other than my family that i can confide stuff to who i know will keep a secret. i like this guy alot and i want to go out with him but be in a relationship that involves romatic friendship instead of just kissing around school like other couples.. i know its a weird question, but how can i get closer to him? friendship-wise. i have one class with him, p.e. he plays varsity football, i play b-ball, we both have 4.0's and he's really cute strong, and not immature one bit. how can i get closer to him??
2007-09-22 18:25:33 · 25 answers · asked by starstudded07 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you just hang around him.. Or just randomly flirt with him..
just come up some time and talk to him for 5 minutes.. and i bet in a couple of days .. you'll be talking for hours... texting or cellphones.. or in person.. ...
You have always got to start somewhere.. so go talk to him.. and ask him what he likes in a girl... that'll let him know your interested.
2007-09-22 18:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your best friend right? Well then ask him whats up?! My husband and I were really good friends in high school. Eventually we ended up together (in high school) and till this day we are still best friends. Its important to be friends first because you can get to really know the person and what you are getting into. Alot of girls think that they have to wait around for the guy to ask them out but thats not true. You see one that you want, then go after him. A good one is hard to find. If he says no to going out, then you have to be mature enough to not take it personal and not the make the relationship weird. What have you got to lose? You wanna get closer to him? Tell him that. Be a good friend, be there for him, you get the point. It can work. Friends make the best lovers. Believe me, I know b/c I married my best friend. He was simply too good to let get away. If I didn't persue him, that would have gave way for another woman to have him and I say Uh uh to that.
2007-09-22 18:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend can be your best friend. Many married couples feel that their marriage partner is their best friend. At this point, he's neither your boyfriend nor your best friend. Since you only have one class at school together, and you aren't involved in the same extracurricular activities, you are like two ships passing in the night. I have one suggestion about getting closer to him that you might try: Attend his church. If he doesn't go to church, but you do, then invite him to yours. See if you can socialize with him after church, too. That way you can spend some time outside of school with him, and perhaps there will be church youth activities that you can participate in together unlike the school activities that keep you separated. Sharing spiritual and moral values together will get you well on the way to being best friends who can confide in each other about everything.
2007-09-22 18:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by williamsonworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction not. I surely have been interior an identical sitituation for over 10 years! and that i'm not with him now. i admire him extra beneficial than the different guy that I surely have been with.it fairly is to not late to be freinds back in case you the two can purely be associates until you want to waste an excellent form of a while on b.s. And purely bear in suggestions you broke up for a reason purely bear in suggestions that.
2016-10-19 12:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a sophmore, the best thing you can do is be noticed. To be noticed in High School is to date, date, date! I'm betting that if you will start dating a lot, he will become Very Interested! Try it! You will see! The main important thing is: HAVE FUN!
2007-09-22 18:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by lilAudrey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend quality time with him.... not just "make out" time (for lack of a better phrase!)
You get to know him, just like you would a girlfriend, and the friendship comes with time.
My boyfriend is my best friend. It took awhile to get there, but it is worth the wait!
2007-09-22 18:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by crankyissues 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is the person you love, trust, and can talk to about ANYTHING over anyone else?...then yes, he can be your best friend and boyfriend. After all, most people who get married marry their best friend. You have to click intellectually as well as physically.
2007-09-22 18:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by Angel2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure!!!..a boyfriend can be a very bestfriend.....
that guy and you were like sport...you must be always see him when in training...so....what if you try to start the relationship first...or if you feel shy,you can throw your ball to him but make sure no one see you..then go to him and say sorry to him...you can say to him that you will do something to redeem your mistake such as treat him for lunch...so you can make relation from that incident...
you can also take advantage..he must already have many friend...so you can make friend by him...try to close with his friend...:)
2007-09-22 18:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by sue:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r having the right receipe to loose him He is in love and you want him to dump the other girl for you I would not be your YOU are a back stabber
2007-09-22 18:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats tough.. well i have none classes with the guy i like but i always know where he is at lunch so i can talk to him for a wee bit of the day. it sucks not having a class with the guy you like...
2007-09-22 18:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by c.m.t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋