i really like this guy and is known for a player and i recently went to a dance with him and he held me closely and looked in to my eyes and said he loved it when i smiled so i blused and he kissed me on the lips and help me tighter then he touched me i pushed away and said why do u wanna just mess around and said to stop and we ended up fighting and he got mad and kissed another girl and today he calls me and says that i need to have more fun and he flirts with me still and im falling for him i dont know what to do and i told him never to touch me like that and he agreed and i really do love him and he even apologized for the way he acted. i really want him to be with me but i dont know how to get him?
he is very mysterious, gets what he wants, is a football player, a amazing person in bed( wat i heard) but he says im beautiful but he cant have a girlfriend i need help im in tear over him. what should i do and say to him????
2007-09-22 17:36:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
danger!!!!! alert!
(this reminds me of the song by hilary duff, also titled "danger". you should listen to it sometime.)
i wish i could have that allure...
for your own best interests in the future, you should stay away from him. actually, you could hook up with him if you want some fun, a fling, but do not expect him to be relationship material.
it's better to find some other guy if you want a relationship.
2007-09-22 18:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he would b a perfect opportunity 4 u 2 play around with. if u just wanna play, then go 4 it. remeber, ur not allowed 2 get attached during that process. if u want more than just playing around (relationship 4 ex) then stay away from him. he obviously is known 2 be a playa and u wanna join da game. if ur in to 1night stands and here n there, then go 4 it. hook up. but dont expect anything more. and about him being "amazing" in bed, alot of guyz r. big freakin deal. my man is 2. but dats not all dat he is. he treats me like a queen and doesnt think about other girlz. but this boy seems 2 b doing all dat. would u rather b w/a guy dats just urs AND good in bed, or a guy dats been everywhere and still is everywhere and everybody's and good in bed? think about it.
2007-09-22 17:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by sylvia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a dangerous person to fall in love with. Either way you would probably get your heart broken! So i reckon its better to nip it @ the bud... and try and distract yourself. Maybe try and look @ the other guys around u!
Remember, he prolly tells all the gurls he meets that they re beautiful, and you dont wanna be just another gurl, you want to be #1 on a guy's list!
Just tell him that its all or nothing and if he cant have you as his gurlfriend.. well then... he cant have anything else! dont let him use u!
Good luck :)
2007-09-22 17:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kittykaren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's going to be a "fast mover" & be prepared to be dealing w/a person who sounds like he's use to getting just what he wants. He's already demonstrated to you how quickly he put the moves on you. I honestly don't think he'll change either. He might act it in the beginning, but he's one I'd really watch out for & I think would be someone who would really be experienced in handeling his quick/professional moves. Are you SURE you know what you'd be getting into? Are you SURE this is what you really want? I'd do some serious thinking before I'd "tackle" someone like that. He's a smooth talker, a fast talker & seems to know how to get a girl in the position of him making all the moves. Think about it seriously, then really make up your mind IF this is REALLY what you want to get involved with. I HONESTLY would find it hard to be able to trust him completely. Make up your mind if he's really worth it...
2007-09-22 17:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone girl. I know how it is when you have fallen for someone but irl please. He is a jerk and he is playing you. A guy that really likes you would never kiss another girl becasue you didnt wanna get nasty with him. He is now playing a role for you. As soon as you fall deep he is gonna start the games right back up. He doesn't sound like the truth telling type of guy.
2007-09-22 17:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Model07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh, well you cant force a relationship. Ive had women fall for me even knowing i dont want to be in a relationship. I tell them that they are only gonna end up getting hurt. Thats what im telling you know. If this guy dont want a steady girlfriend, and you want to be a steady girlfriend, it will only end badly.
2007-09-22 17:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't get too involved with him since he's known as a player. Every guy that I've dated that was known as a player, ended a disaster
2007-09-22 17:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave that one alone. You will be setting yourself up for failure. There are to many guys out there to waste your time with him..
2007-09-22 17:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by bree57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk. I'd stay far away.
2007-09-22 17:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by jess_ls04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋