I really like this girl and I don't know if she likes me and we flirt alot, but what kind of compliments do girls like to hear?
2007-09-22 18:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like being called cute. I don't like it when a guy says I'm hot.
2007-09-22 18:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much any kind of compliment. So switch it up a bit: her new clothes, her hair, and school stuff (I know that last one is lame, but girls like to hear about how smart they are too--very effective).
Also, every now and again you can compliment a girl by gently teasing them about something small. Seriously, try it.
A warning though: if you compliment girls too much, they either get sick of it OR (worse) come to *expect* it and get *hurt* when you don't do it regularly. So keep it sparse, only every now and again.
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2007-09-23 01:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sci-Fi Jones 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know where this "nice shoes" thing came about, but I think it's from movies! Most women I know buy shoes to please themselves, NOT guys!
IMO, and in my experience, what women care most about is: Looks ("am I pretty?" -- say YES!!!) , figure, esp. NOT being "fat"...and you'd be surprised how many THIN women think they're overweight (???)
They want you TO PAY ATTENTION TO THEM! Unlike men, most women/girls do NOT need to have their ego flattered, like "Ooh, what a GREAT set of six-pack abs you have!" or "Wow, that sure was a great marketing research presentation" (YAWWWN!).
They just want you to BE THERE FOR THEM.
Surprisingly (or maybe not?) a LOT of men find that so difficult to do!) (Selfish jerks!)
P.S. Women DO seem to like it alot if you can SHOW you were listening, like quoting them later on, or saying stuff like, "Hey, isnt' that [fill in the blanks] you wanted/were looking at/said you liked?"
And, btw, it does NOT have to be all material! Try reflecting their INTELLECTUAL opinions!!! What a concept...
2007-09-23 01:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Gwynneth Of Olwen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't try to compliment em too much, you have to observe and see what type of girl she is,
if she looks like a stuck up hoe, then u should be like "yea you look alright but your shoes are like eh"
it depends on the girl man
2007-09-23 01:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Follow The 9 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have a great hand writing (if you see her writing something), if she's smart tell her that you wish you were smart like her, ask her questions and compliment about her answers like:
you: what kind of car do you like?
she: well I like the Toyotas.
you: me too!! that is such a great car. you have a really great taste in cars,etc.
and if you don't want her to notice that you like her don't ever compliment her about her eyes. clothe, hair, etc..
if you do want her to know that you like her tell her that she looks really pretty today, and then say " I mean you look pretty everyday!" and laugh.
well good luck with that
2007-09-23 01:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The TRUTH....If you like things about her compliment the thinngs you honestly like about her..Just don't compliment the not so strong things about her or she might think you are randomly complimenting her and don't mean it..
2007-09-23 01:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by anntanner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love when a guy will say something about my outfit. Girls think guys don't notice clothes or hair, when we spend a long time trying to look good for you guys. next time you see her, say "i really like your top" and if you say it a couple days (don't always say top, will sound creepy,) she will get the hint. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2007-09-23 01:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by APinne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, her rump is as big as the queens, and twice as fragrant! lol
Nah compliments on anything above the neck is where you gotta start.
2007-09-23 01:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you look beautiful always works ;)
sexy and hot i personally dont like..
but the little things
like i like your earrings today
thats a nice necklace..
2007-09-23 01:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by pirate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she asks how she looks, shrug and say "Could be better." This will keep her on her toes, and girls love that.
2007-09-23 01:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋