Family & Relationships - 22 September 2007

The txt: I'm beginning to think you dun want to do this anymore. dun say you dun have the time. Ppl make time babe, guess u can't. Let's cut the cord now, i've been more than patient with you. U treat me worst than a pet dog, i've been the best person i could. Nvr pressured or forced u to do anything. I put up wit all the drama, Waited 6 years and more. And wat do i get? You always come first with me, but i've never been more than an option for you. I've always compromised, by saying it's ok it's alrite. when it never was. i don't know wat more i can gve u. i've tried to tell u this over the fone, but u nvr pick up wen i call. i'm doing this for u, caz u're too damn busy to do it. Let's not delay the brkup. If u can even call it one. it's just not fair to you or me. I'm sorry i let you drag this for so long. I shuld've known better shouldn't have dragged it for so long. Hope u find someone who suits ur lifestyle. I don't feel you anymore,don't worry ain't gonna cry my eyes out.

2007-09-22 21:39:13 · 10 answers · asked by reena_nathan 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 22-year old undergraduate student. Recently, my mum asked me to go swimming on a daily basis. However, I told her I can only go swimming 2 times a week, mostly. I say I need to attend school on weekdays and work part-time every day. I don't have so much time. But she yelled at me " I don't accept this and you are full of sin. " Then, she said when I'm at the age of five, I did something wrong. She compained from the age of 5 to 22, evry year. I said I am an accouting student so studying accoutning is my main job, not swimming, She said I didn't respect her. She said " Chris, when I see you everyday , you must let me see you studying, gone to canoeing, swimming or working part-time. Last time I saw you watching TV. " I said " Come on. I have my own time schedule.and I only watch TV for half an hour every day. Still unreasonable ? " She replied ' If you don't obey to me I'll stop sponsoring 50% of your school fee ( p.s. I paid another 50% of it by part-time, barely enough " )

2007-09-22 21:26:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i know this guy and i really want to have sex with him but i dont know if he wants to with me. we have done stuff before but never have had sex. what do i do, should i ask him or should i just go for it.

2007-09-22 21:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How are you ? Thank you for emailing me . I feel lucky that you have emailed me .You are a great package and honestly you deserve someone who is kind and good and who will treat you nicely. First of all I am not perfect .Secondly I am seeing someone else .Sorry I hope I do not insult you or hurt you with this email .I do not want to hurt your feelings.

Bye

***I think that's a nice way of telling me I'm ugly.

2007-09-22 21:08:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you feel sexually attracted to a girl, what other things about her make you actually love her as opposed to just wanting a physical thing with her? This topic facinates me as I know that sometimes a guy would just like a sexual fling (or one night) with a woman. Then, what are the little extra things about a girl that would push you to fall in love (as opposed to lust) with her?

2007-09-22 21:04:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you men get scared when you meet a woman that you feel you could really really fall in love with? Would it ever stop you from dating her? I know it sounds stupid, but could it give you an overwhelming fear? Also would the fact that she lived in another state or country add to the fear?

2007-09-22 21:00:34 · 6 answers · asked by gentle girl 1 in Singles & Dating

His actions show that he loves me. He does everything for me. He would be the perfect man if he didnt have this issue. Does anyone think he will grow out of it? He is 27, I am 21. Been together for 6 years. I keep taking him back though, even though in my heart i know he is capable of cheating. I keep falling for his " I will never do it again speech. I love him so much but i just need someone or something to tell me what they think. I need strength to leave. And I know I sound so naive right now I hate it.

2007-09-22 20:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by Dae 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

The Duggar family had their 17 child last month and they want more. I'm interested in what other people think of this.

2007-09-22 20:46:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-22 20:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by rathish_jpl 1 in Singles & Dating

This question might sound strange and funny but idealogically is big question because experience has shown that most marriages could not last due to the inability of one to person or to satisfy the other when the need arises.

But my concern is that, does it really matter? compare to the love that glued both together before the marriage was contracted. What is your view and opinion on it.

2007-09-22 20:41:30 · 23 answers · asked by felix4aho 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have posted several questions on this page...about the women it seems I keep meeting.

I broke up with Heather because I found out she slept with alot of guys. I think women that sleep around are like prostitutes that don't get paid, and I don't want them in my life, because they will cheat.

She was not honest with me from the beginning....she knew how I felt about promiscuous women, lied...then when she knew I was in love decided to just throw her "number" at me.

Women that answer my question keep saying " well how come it is OK when a guy sows his oats?..." whatever...don't you know it's wrong either way? Don't you hate the fact that people are so sleezy that the chances of you meeting the love of your life, and catching some disease it a huge probability?

Quit making excuses for scumbag behavior. Are we animals?

And no- I haven't screwed a ton of people- as alot of peoples answers seem to suggest.

2007-09-22 20:39:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are not involved, but he is a good friend to me too. He understands me better than my husband and is always there to cheer me up. He is attracted to me too because I can see it in his eyes. Whenever we are left alone the tension becomes very apparent but nothing happens. He tells me how beautiful I am in front of my husband and my husband even says we should be married because we are so alike. It is frustrating because my husband has not given me sex for 4 years now. I feel like leaving town.......

2007-09-22 20:36:10 · 17 answers · asked by Angel2007 3 in Marriage & Divorce

These older and younger women treat me like I am stupid. They say to my face sometimes. I dress nicely but not trashy like they do. They criticise the way I dress. I do not want any attention from men and figure why dress like that in public if I do not want that attention. At home I wear what I like.

They are single moms, some have 7 kids to 2 different dads and they criticise me because I don't have a boyfriend.

In time the right man will come to me but I am smart enough to know that men try and find girlfriends for sex and I only want that when I am married. I am a virgin.

They say I am backwarsd cause I like to listen more than talk in groups, till I get a feel for people and learn they are no threat. Then I speak more.

I have made some big mistakes but do not drink or smoke or take drugs. They say I am no fun.

Am I mixing with the wrong sorts of people?

Where can I find like minded people?

2007-09-22 20:29:18 · 13 answers · asked by Leah 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with a girl I thought was "the one" because I found out she had slept with a lot of guys.

How do women think men will respect them...when they act like they are a receptacle for every sleezy guy out there? Don't they think we care?Don't they know that it hurts us that they give something we think we earned away to every scumbag in the city?

2007-09-22 20:24:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

tell me characteristics or signs?

2007-09-22 20:18:34 · 5 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a realtionship for 4 years. We have been married for 2 1/2 years and he has been deployed for over a year of it. We are divocing because of a realtionship he developed with another woman and because he is a liar.
We are currently seperated. He is due to come home from Iraq in the next 3 weeks and we will not be getting back together. We will not even see eachother because e wont be living near one another. We both want this divorce and we both want it as quickly as possible. Is it okay to start considering dating or even just going out with different guys. I dont want anything serious at this point but I could use some friends. Thanks for any answers.

2007-09-22 20:14:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married for 20 years and he had affair 3 years ago i did forgive him but made him suffer for a couple of years 5 weeks ago he just left me and said he does not love me like he should and he has gone to live with his mother i have since found out he has a friend that he goes round to on evening to talk to he says she is just a friend but i dont really believe him but my problem is i love him so much and i just cant get on with out him within 5 weeks he has asked for divorce and now our house has been sold and he is giving me everything profit wise to set up somewhere else i just dont understand what went wrong and how i can stop loving him like i do i thought he was my sole mate and i am just falling apart i know he does not want me but i need him so much and he is so cold toward me i really dont understand and need some help if anyone has been through something like this i would love some advice please i am just dying inside and need help to get through this

2007-09-22 20:04:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a threesome. and its a little different cause we all love eachother. its a relationship of 3 girls. we plan on having 3 way sex but dont know how. and we also want kids. should i ask a man that i know looking for a place to stay to come stay with us, and then maybe take some of his sperm and use it?

let me tell you about the threesome. theres me [sorry about my avatar, i accidently clicked male instead of female] michelle. and thens there betty, wow is she big boobed! and then theres is chantal. i really love them. when we sleep, we have no clothes on. and while im at home, i usually dont have clothes on. but its getting diffucult, and i really want kids. so does betty and chantal.

2007-09-22 20:01:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It didnt work out with me and my guy, I have vowed that i would never speak to him again!! So now it has been a couple of months since. AND TO MY OWN SURPRISE I HAVE DONE A GOOD JOB OF IGNORING HIM!! But now all of a sudden he wants to ask me how i am doing, and even said you act like you are mad with me. I am still ignoring him. Why now does he want to talk to me even though i am ignoring him my answer to any of his questions are very short if any answer at all. He dosent need me women have always been crazy over him I have seen it with my own eyes!!

2007-09-22 19:57:17 · 20 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

They have been living together for about six months and have been dating for about a year before that, now he calls her his wife and she calls him her husband but she is still legally married to some other guy but there seperated, he says there common law married and i say he is full of it and that there is only one kind of marrage that counts and that he is just fooling himself, who is right him or me?

2007-09-22 19:54:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my husband like to fling around..i cant understand why? i am a very understanding wife,always there for him when he needs me,but the pain is,he has having an affair with another woman..how can i stop him?i love him so much..and i dont want to lose him..please advice...thanks

2007-09-22 19:47:12 · 14 answers · asked by icepink 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that they say that woman r suposed to hold back in order to keep a man but i just don't want to it is the whole woman=**** man=stud sinario...I want it tooo. but at the same time I am looking for mr.right. Is there a balance? Can I get what I want and still keep his respect?

2007-09-22 19:41:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 yrs cheated on me while I was pregnant and so we broke up a month before our baby was born. Now, 6 months later he's being all sweet and tells me he still loves me and wants to be a family with us. He tells me he misses me and that he's so happy when he's with our baby and I (he works out of town and is gone 2 wks out of the month). I was ready to forgive him and try to make it work for our daughter's sake but I just found out he's seeing someone but haven't confronted him on it yet. I know my baby and I deserve so much better than this loser so I know I need to get him out of my life. I won't keep him from seeing his baby, but I'll have to have someone else there as I do not want to fall for his BS anymore. I get stupid and weak around him. What is wrong with this jerk? I feel like he's won or something. I don't want him to be happy with this other woman. How can he tell me he loves me, that he's so glad that I'm the mother of his baby and that I'm so amazing and

2007-09-22 19:33:01 · 24 answers · asked by J-doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I was thinking my dad and I could do this as a prank. My dad has horrible snoring so my mom forces him to sleep in my room sometiems and I sleep in my moms room on the floor with an air bed. I was thinking one weekend I could go to bed and about 15 minutes later have my dad sneak down stairs and start dropping a cup (like a plastic one) on the tile. Naturally if my mom hears something she looks down to where I am to see if its me becse I'm a klutz and very noisey. So then after she wakes up it'd stop and then about 5 minutes later it'd start again, then I would place my life size barbie on the couch having her sit up right or stand her in the middle of the dinning room (once when I was little I had a balloon and I left it right there and my mom came downstairs to get some water and it scared the living daylights out of her) and my mom would see it and be freaked out then my dad would jump out and scare her. What do you think, should we go through with it?. And we'd video tape it.

2007-09-22 19:29:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why does married women think it.s ok to cheat and act like nothing has happened where they have children and husbands. when they know it only will cause there families. problems .in school. church. and with there children.s friend.s dont they ever think about who get.s hurt over it or just think of there selves

2007-09-22 19:28:49 · 7 answers · asked by singlemale_2711 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-22 19:28:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I see these things going on all over. I'm decent, in great shape for a guy of fifty two, and I have a very active sexual imagination. My wife has cheated on me, I forgave her, but the short version of the long story is our sex life died. Please, don't suggest counseling, we've done it all. I would like to find another married lady who could lose as much as I would. After my kids are gone, I will divorce, I think we both agree that should be done. My name is known in the community, so discretion is important. Why is it so difficult to find a lady with as much to lose as I, who also is lacking it the physical relationship, who would like to explore adult things with me? Six one, two ten, all of my hair and teeth! Work out regularly. Part of the problem would be that I don't lie about my situation, and I also work three jobs, so there isn't much time. I don't look in bars, where I work, so maybe if you're interested, chat with me!!

2007-09-22 19:16:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's not like I was saving for some one special. It just never clicked. Lately I've been looking for some girls who would like to hang out with me, so far no success. I want to throw away my virginity, but I want to do my first with someone I can really like. There is this girl I've known since we were kids. We do have a thing for each other. I'm not sure if I should do it with her or find someone else. What do you guys think?

2007-09-22 19:16:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone out there feel like they are in a crappy marriage? How long have you been married? What is keeping you there? How old were you when you got married? What makes it so crappy? Please be detailed in your answer.

2007-09-22 19:07:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i live with my mom and dad and they let my bf move in about a yr and a half ago and and everythings great between me and him and everyone, everyone likes him and hes really nice and helps but while my mom was gone to visit her sister ,my brother moved in his high strung girl friend who basically spends all his money and says she is putting it in savings,and wont get a job of her own , and my mom wont kick her out because she lied to my mum and said that her mom was a methhead and threatened to kill her when in reality when my moms at work and they are talking all day on my houses phone ... so i am stuck here because me and my fiance/bf are saving money to get an apartment and she calls me fat tells me im being bitchy . ok so today is my brothers b'day and my family is over and i sat on the couch to visit with my gmaand she kicks me and puts her muddy shoes all over me and says my feet stink when i just got outta the shower like 20 mins ago.continued below Additional Details1 day agoi said i was gonna sit on the other non ***** couch and left i want to hit her and she does all this **** all the time

2007-09-22 19:06:03 · 4 answers · asked by that 1 chick 2 in Family