What should i do ...???

Question

ok so i live with my mom and dad and they let my bf move in about a yr and a half ago and and everythings great between me and him and everyone, everyone likes him and hes really nice and helps but while my mom was gone to visit her sister ,my brother moved in his high strung girl friend who basically spends all his money and says she is putting it in savings,and wont get a job of her own , and my mom wont kick her out because she lied to my mum and said that her mom was a methhead and threatened to kill her when in reality when my moms at work and they are talking all day on my houses phone ... so i am stuck here because me and my fiance/bf are saving money to get an apartment and she calls me fat tells me im being bitchy . ok so today is my brothers b'day and my family is over and i sat on the couch to visit with my gmaand she kicks me and puts her muddy shoes all over me and says my feet stink when i just got outta the shower like 20 mins ago.continued below Additional Details1 day agoi said i was gonna sit on the other non ***** couch and left i want to hit her and she does all this **** all the time

Answer 1

Have you told your mom and dad how you feel and what you can see going on? Sounds like if your folks are willing to let your brother's gf live in their house, it is something you have to live with while you are living there. I agree it does sound like she is not good for your brother and the rest of the family, but it is also up to your brother unless he is a kid as to who he sees and what he spends his money on, as hard as it is to watch. Maybe you and your fiance can reassess the accommodation situation and see if you can come up with an alternative. It would be a shame for the gf to cause a falling out in the family, so hopefully you can avoid this, even if it requires walking outside and counting to ten and biting your tongue. Good luck.

Answer 2

Your parents are oblivious to what is going on. Quite frankly they need to set a move-out date for both of you couples. This has gone on long enough.
The brother's GF is an abusive psycho. You might consider inviting the GF's mother over for an introduction to your parents... just to clear the air. All the lies that can be refuted in that one session would probably be eye-opening.
I hope your parents keep a deadbolt lock on their bedroom door.

You really need to get out of there for the sake of your own sanity. To rent an apartment usually only requires a deposit of the first and last month's rent up front. Get second jobs if you have to in order to rake in enough money to get out of there.

Answer 3

You really should talk to your mother about all of this. As for the girlfriend talking on the phone to her mom all the time, isn't there a phone bill statement where you live? On my statements it gives all numbers dialed out and all received calls, and how long they were. Point this out to your mom. If I were you, I would just withstand it for as long as it took for me and my boyfriend to save my money to move out.
Also, the biggest problem here is that she's obviously very immature. Kicking you with muddy feet, calling you names, etc, should all be grounds for eviction on her part. Speak up about it!
Or you could be evil and dial her mother's number when she's not there, then hand the phone to your mom and say it's for her. I wonder what they'd say to each other? (Catch my drift?)

Answer 4

Your parents need an evaluation on why the h@@l they would let their childrens boy or girl friends move into the family home. I'm sorry that your excuse is to "save money" because in my house you could do that living with each your own parents. It would be a cold day in h@@l before my children would move into my home with their boyfriend/fiance. YOur parents need help and I hope you don't follow in their footsteps.