i'm attracted to guys a lot older than me, i'm 16 and i think the idea of being with a college (and older, under 30) guy is really hot...
maybe it's the rebellious aspect that makes me attracted to them- i mean they're around my older sister's age and i know a guy that old would worry my parents... but i don't know--
or is it normal?
2007-09-22 17:28:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're looking for a daddy.
2007-09-22 17:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by guyitsover14 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hi Hi
I see you are confused and need help. Being attracted to an older guy is differcult as being attracted to a younger girl. In wich case it has happen to me. Smiles you realized there is a thin line between attrated and sex, and once you have a older guys you will know why you want him. As my girl freind Dianne put is so well it was the worst and best time of her life. We have been happy dating for 3 years and plan to get married ASAP>
2007-09-22 18:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by ho8er2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allllllllright...here is what I think. Normal not so much. But then who is to say there is anything wrong with it. There will be, however, some big mentality issues seeing the age difference. You will want certain things and they will want different things due to the age in most cases. The physical part will be the part that holds things together but for how long?? You have to think, when your 25-30 and still looking good he will be 40 and fading a bit. That's what I always thought.
2007-09-22 17:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People here, and today, may not think it is 'normal', but, overall, it is. And I'm not sure why 'rents don't want their daughters to date older, more stable, less hormonal, more responsible men. Most men that I know will tell me that, in their adolescents, they wanted sex at the expence of any ethics. But, as adults of thirty or so, they see the foolishness and emptiness of that. There are those men who go after young women, thinking that they can capitolize on their innoscence and irresponsibility. So, just be smart & don't let them!
2007-09-22 17:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cool to be attracted to older guys and there is nothing wrong with it!!!!!!! but your only 16 and that's a minor and he could get into trouble for being with you!!!!!!!!! i think you need to wait until your at least 18 then feel free to go for the older guys!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-22 17:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to be attracted to older guys but to keep it leagel you better dont do anything with them until you are 18. if you have a relationship with one of those men you and/or you would be in trouble because that is statutory rape, and the guy can go to jail for that.
2007-09-22 17:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not abnormal --- the problem you have is that the guys you mainly attract will be predators --- you would be best to concentrate on guys your age for 4 -5 years at least --- then you can see how you feel and look to dating genuine guys twice your age ---- best wishes
2007-09-22 17:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive heard that before, most girls around your age seem to be attracted to olden men. Its just what you prefer. Not really a big deal, but be careful.
2007-09-22 17:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might call it a crush or you can call it puppy love. But you should be around guys that old, since your a minor and they are adults. SO just be carefull and it is normal to fantasy.
2007-09-22 17:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guy's going to get in a lot of trouble,you are way too pretty.You will probably get hurt (emotionally) as well.
2007-09-22 17:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by J_DOG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah a lot of girls (probably most) like older guys, and many like guys who are far older than them. very common. i wouldn't recommend acting on it though. they are probably going to want sex *very* soon and may want *only* sex. you may not be up for that.
if that pic is accurate though, guys that age (myself included) are going to be pretty attracted to you, so watch out. :)
2007-09-22 17:34:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋