i like dis guy more dan ill ever love ever again but he say im immature just because i am to shy around him an do stupid things me n him dont talk but because he chose not to hes heard things about me n judges me for no reason,he cant see me at all cause he says i bug him i love so much dat no matter wat he does ill b there 4 him even tho hes a promblem in my life should still be there when i've heard so many things of me an knowin i have no chance with him he things my friends hot an hes sprung of this other chick an hearin all dat i still love him.wat should i do.
2007-09-22 14:43:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to move on. I understand that you are hurting because you feel so much for him. But you have to move on.
He has and you cant change that. You need to learn how to control your emotions. Don't be the clingy type, guys don't want a girl that falls fast and hard in love with them and then clings to them constantly.
As you get older you will learn how to be more social. Be patient with your self.
Good luck, faith
2007-09-22 17:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to be with someone who appreciates you. Someone who doesn't judge you; you need and deserve a champion. If I understand you correctly, you also are dealing with this guy, and you know that he wants to be with another girl. If his interests are vested somewhere else, and with someone else, trust me, three's a crowd. Also, you may want to really take a look at these feelings you have for him that you have labeled love. We use that word in place of nostalgia, infatuation, etc. Do you think it is possible that you are partly trying to be with him because he chose someone else over you? I'll tell you this; no man that KNOWS that you will be with him no matter WHAT he does to you,will never work to try to keep you. You've already taught him that it is not necessary to appreciate you, or treat you with decency or respect let alone love. Let this one go; all it's going to do is make room for a man that truly will love you. Just remeber next time never to give more than you recieve in love; it will bite you in the butt! BLessings.....
2007-09-26 14:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by jmizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, on your query "and make him comprehend", i'm unsure what you want him to comprehend. You have been assembly yet another couple at some bar, and the different couple wanted to alter which bar. That replaced into the beginning up of the incident, and you blew it out of share. in case you fairly wanted to work out what the placement replaced into like, i'm unsure how long your husband have been speaking approximately it, yet there have been an excellent number of different nights you have asked him to take you there, or you have met him there after artwork. something of the placement is complicated to tell, as I wasn't there to hearken to the particularly substitute between you and him. as some distance via fact the college pupil piece, particularly one million/2 the relaxing in sitting in a bar is human beings staring at, and it seems such as you have been being a damp blanket on that as properly. The tail end on him calling you loopy is in all probability incorrect, yet as I stated with out listening to the words you utilized in complaining, plus tone, hand action, etc its slightly complicated to be certain. same with not paying interest to you in anger, this is a exceedingly favourite reaction. i might ought to wager which you have have been given finished an identical to him at moments. Him citing divorce is a concern nonetheless, and you do would desire to artwork through that with out basing it on incidents. What I propose is, citing the communicate of divorce and why he feels that way ought to be outdoors of the context of that one nighttime. What befell that nighttime is beside the point, its one nighttime out of in spite of the undeniable fact that many days you have been collectively. i think of this is between the factors the place couples have a complicated time resolving the bigger subject concerns, whilst one or the different concentrates on minute information of guy or woman interactions rather of the extra beneficial umbrella of time-honored reason. It will become a case of prevailing a conflict, yet dropping the conflict....
2016-10-19 11:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO ****** LEARN ENGLISH
2016-11-13 07:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋