ok so i went on my husbands myspace and i found commits to outher girls that where inaproperit and he is not with me right now he is in the navy he says hes just flirty guys how can i get it threw to him its not ok
2007-09-22 15:54:10 · 16 answers · asked by jumpnstarz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not good. No way good. Ask him to stop. If he does not, well then sorry about that.
2007-09-22 15:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you can. If he's "playing", then you won't get him to change. You can only tell him that this hurts you. If he is insensitive to ignore you, maybe you got the wrong jerk!
However, understand that you may be overly sensitive, yourself. Maybe you are a bit insecure, and that's why you checked on his MySpace. He's in the Navy, and he's lonesome, and some chicks want chat with a married man. So he says he isn't.
For sure, he can't sleep with them long distance! ( at least I never knew a man with one that long!)
2007-09-22 23:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you shouldn't have to "get threw" to him about what you think is inappropriate. he should already know these things. it's pretty common knowledge that when you are married that you do not say inappropriate things to other women. honey, he's playing you. do not for a second believe his "i'm just a flirt" BS. tell him to stop it now and if he doesn't, then you're leaving.
2007-09-22 23:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all do it,I can tell you how many guys I talk to in chat rooms that want to go in a private room and just talk most of them are deployed. There is no harm in it it's only talk nothing dirty. As soon as they want to talk dirty i tell them i don't do that and they say ok thank you and good-by.
2007-09-22 23:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open a myspace account in a name he would not suspect and do a little flirting with him.... Keep him busy with your alter ego and it won't be considered cheating.
2007-09-22 23:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by silly_me 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
start by telling him the seperation is really hard but then say,
"it makes this harder when I feel like I can't trust you?"
him, "whatddu mean?"
"ur myspace just looks a little weird to me."
"whaddu mean?"
go on to explain whatever you want, but keep in calm and don't accuse
2007-09-22 23:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by K.I.S.S. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely flirt with him under an assumed name.
Oh, and if you do decide to post pictures you can send them to me first and I'll give you an unbiased evaluation.
No, don't thank me. It's quite alright.
2007-09-22 23:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok do this, sit him down and say if you don't stop, I will start, and then show him the pictures of you in the nude that you will be posting.
2007-09-22 23:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by 400lbtwins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you've seen the comments and they make you uncomfortable. That's the most you should have to do. If he doesn't respect you enough to change his behavior at that point, I'm not sure why he deserves to have you as his wife.
2007-09-22 23:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Calmly talk to him about how you feel when you are disrespected this way. Check him out on how he would feel if the situation was reversed.
2007-09-22 23:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by ozzman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel and tell him if he keeps doing this than you are lonely to and if he can do it so can you. After all you are just passing time like he is.
2007-09-22 23:09:21 · answer #11 · answered by cmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋