I think that I might be smothering my boyfriend a little bit, he doesn't think so. He barely hangs out with his friends and rarely does stuff by hinself. He spends every waking minute with me and every time I ask him he says he likes to spend time with me. I'm just scared that I will smother him or push him away by trying not to smother him. Am I smothering him? Am I pushing him away? Or am I just over reacting and should take a chill pill?
2007-09-22 17:20:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think this shows, how much you truely care for him. and how much you love him. he may not want to do other things but be with you.
2007-09-22 17:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think spending ALL of your time with any one person for any reason is a good idea for either of you.....you're smothering each other!! Even if neither of you feels it or sees it now, you will eventually get very tired of being the only one in each others daily lives.... it would surely help both of you to grow as people and appreciate each other much more if you would make sure not to "lose yourselves" in ur relationship....good luck
2007-09-23 00:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by sadewl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says there is not a problem then your overeacting and need to take a chill pill!!!!!!!!!!!
now you have to be careful about not making them feel smothered becasue if you are always hanging on him or cuddling when he does not want to or has reached his limit for the day. or if your always following him around you will make him feel smothered!!!!!!!!!
i know that when i first got together with my guy i did this way too much and he told me he felt like i was smothering him so i backed off and we agreed that if he feels like iam doing somthing to much and it bothers him he will tell me that he has had enough of it for the time being or he dont feel like cuddling or whatever at the moment and i will not let it bother me or hurt me in any way. in fact i want him to tell me if something bothers him so that we can find a soulution to it so that it wont bother him. wheather it be putting a time limit on cuddling or talking or whatever.
so unless your bf says he gots a prob dont worry about it.
2007-09-23 00:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is okay with spending alot of time with you, then there is no reason to think you are doing something wrong. Maybe he just enjoys your company over his friends right now, that could change in the future, and I hope you have the same open mind then too! Good luck with the relationship and relax and enjoy it!
2007-09-23 00:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill for a while. do something with YOUR friends. if he wants to spend time with you, then be sure HE wont smother YOU. dont ask him to go to the movies for a few days. dont call him for a few days. i know it may be hard, but dont. it will help you sooo sooo much.
2007-09-23 00:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by ☼mischevious☼ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill Pill, definetely. Some guys like to have their girlfriend around all the time. If he loves you so much, feel blessed.
But , if ever he wants to go and do things without you, tell him to have fun and don't make him feel guilty.
2007-09-23 00:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mimza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there... me and my boyfriend hung out all the time and I don't think it was good. Just tell him its ok if he hangs out with his friends. Don't keep asking are you sure you don't want to hang out with them? but just let him know you are cool with him having guys night or whatever. Let him know you appreciate him wanting to be with you a lot, but let him know its ok if he needs time to himself or just to hang out with his friends. I think if you let him know he can hang out with his friends and he still hangs out with you then he is doing what he wants. Try not to let it bug you. Hope this helps!
2007-09-23 00:27:48 · answer #7 · answered by Panda23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he can go hang out with his friends let him know he can do that kind of stuff
2007-09-23 00:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by kellyann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him for a few days, and see if he calls you.
2007-09-23 00:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by Squarepusher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋