my parents just got divorced......i have been mad at my dad& havnt talked to him for 4 months. he has cheated on my mom like 5 times.... he has lied to me over and over...and there is a whole lot more to this story, but im not gonna type it all out... should i just get over it and talk to my dad?? or should i stand my ground and stay mad at him for everything he has done to me & my family?
2007-09-22 21:59:14 · 7 answers · asked by sabrina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get mad with him. until he feels sorry.
2007-09-22 22:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by j441167 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my advice is to not stay mad at him. He's the only dad you'll ever have! That doesnt mean you cant get dissapointed, Just try talking to him about how your feeling and see what happens. Its worth a try!
Best of Luck!!!!
2007-09-23 14:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by katiee♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that your dad has hurt you, but by not talking to him you are hurting yourself. He obviously did not have a good marriage with your mom, but that doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. People are human, even parents, and need to be forgiven and loved. Since you haven't given alot of detail it's hard to say for sure if he is worthy of your love. Only you can decide that.
2007-09-23 10:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon there's nothing i can say to help since i really don't know your situation, but i feel for you. you have the right to be angry, but tell him how you feel. It doesn't mean your forgive him it just gives him a chance to try to help things get better. I'm sure he loves you and never meant to hurt you. It's not betraying your mom to still love your dad.
2007-09-23 06:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many things in this life that we don't chose, one of which is our parents. No matter how good or bad they are, nothing will change the fact that they are our parents. We are part of them, we belong to them. So, my advice to you is to forget what he did and forgive him but tell him how u feel and how you felt for what he has done and listen to what he will say.
Hope things will be better
2007-09-23 05:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
2007-09-25 02:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by Krishna A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it, was is done is done. He will not live for ever and If he dies, you will have so much guilt. He will always be your father and he will always be there for you.
2007-09-23 06:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋