i just feel really uncomfortable..im scared im going to get hurt or something, how can i stop this feeling?
2007-09-22 23:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to take it slow and have him only work on the outside lips for now.
2007-09-23 00:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jewish FiLiPiNo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yoru uncomfortable about it then maybe things need to slow down. If it's pain your worried about just have him start small and soft wit just one finger and work his way up if thats not so bad...It doesn't hurt but if you tell yourself it will it'll definitly put a damper on things.
2007-09-22 23:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by wintersnight20 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
slow it down.
make sure he cuts his nails so they are going to scratch you and make you even more scared.
just stick to the outside of the vagina, like the clit etc now and then move on later, when you are comfortable.
2007-09-23 00:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really uncomfortable about this then don't do it. You aren't ready for any sort of sex yet.
2007-09-23 00:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by chris n 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
then tell your bf that you don't want to be fingered. you know what? if he really loves you, he would not do that to you. because if he does, that means that he only wants pleasure.
2007-09-23 00:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by mako2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real nice BF wouldnt do wht u dont want him 2 do. why do u stay wif him for then?
2007-09-23 00:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by vanilla_thrilla01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just relax and it will feel good
2007-09-23 01:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by midsidered821 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋