I'm 18, I'm slim and I'm nicer than most girls these days. I don't go out for the bad boys type, I don't go to clubs or bars or whatever. People outside compliment me saying I look pretty, gorgeous and they even compliment my outfits too. One guy said "sexy" in front of my face when I walked yesterday. Yet... no one ever asks me out? Why is that? It seems like everyone has a bf/gf so easily, yet I can never get one. :( What am I supposed to do to get one?
2007-09-22 22:40:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh my... I pity you. Just reading your sentence structure makes me think you are a beautiful and mature lady.
Well, I'll try listing down a number of possibilities based on character and the sort:
If you are the confident type of girl, you'll have lots of spunk and boys will try to keep a distance away from you. Most boys like girls who are recessive and gentle. However, those type of boys are not trustworthy. They may tend to bully your kind and recessive personality.
If you are the spunky and gentle type that I think you are, I think you are just missing a little something. Maybe that something might just be making the first move!
I do hope I have helped and you have just barely passed the mating age so take your time, look around yourself and choose a man whom you know you'll love forever.
2007-09-22 23:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Marcus M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sory to say this but maybe u should stop telling too much about urself-how good u look or how sexy u are. that might be the main cause why u still dont have a bf. i mean, i dont think guys like girls who talks too much bout themselves, let alone being over-confident. it scares them away. be humblea nd dont get too overshadowed by ur outside appearance. focus more on ur inside this time. ok dear? guys are lot smarter nowadays. they're not only looking for some hot chicks anymore, but they're looking for one with brains and hearts too *winks*
good luck =)
2007-09-23 05:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by Heaven Hill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. it can take a while to meet the right person. I never dated anyone until I was 28 when I met my wife. and we married when I was 31, she died when I was 44 :( (I'm 45now). - so I never even dated anyone until I was 28 - I just never met the right person yet. Then I did, and we really were great for each other.
as far as why pretty girls don't get asked out - I dont' know why
the best thing I can suggest that you do is to show guys kindness. - it helps a lot.
2007-09-23 05:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are beautiful as you say you are, some guys can be intimidated by that. They automatically think they don't stand a chance with you. So usually you have to do the talking. I'm sure when the right guy comes along you'll be right.
2007-09-23 05:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Samiwa! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe because you're so pretty, boys will feel intimidated by you, so they simply flirt? Because of this, you should start getting to know more guys, and treat them as really good friends at first, so that they will know you're single. Also, since you're so gorgeous, why not make the first move?
2007-09-23 05:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Caity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe some guys are feeling intimidated by you..maybe they think you are too pretty and wouldnt be interested in them or something or if your really shy or quiet they may not know how to go about approaching you. maybe you should spark up some conversation with a guy you like and ask him out its a very big step but it wouldnt hurt to try..
2007-09-23 05:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by So Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys believe that girl that are really pretty are unattainable.
Its kind of intimidating to go up to a pretty girl and ask her
out , when most of the time the average guy is going to be
rejected.
do us guys a favor, when you turn someone down be
nice about it.
otherwise we will be less inclined to ask you pretty girls out.
2007-09-23 05:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by 987654321abc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gonna tell ya the secret, society says you shouldn't talk to the guy, i say tha heck with all that noise, if you see a guy ya like go up and talk to him, chances are hes wanting to do the same thing, only hes all ready dealing with the possibility of rejection which is causing him to have second thoughts.
2007-09-23 05:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by El Cid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy
well i'd like to know the answer as well...but a lot of my close guy friends ive known all my life say that most guys are intimidated by natural beauty (as opposed to pounds of makeup induced beauty). basically, theres nothing wrong with us the guys are just RETARDED. haha.
oh btw im 17, not another 12 year old. =]]
2007-09-23 05:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by starfoxy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to get to know someone first , if you wanna chat about things drop me a line , it cant hurt and might just reveal some helpful answers
2007-09-23 05:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by trevor w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋