hey ya'll. i'm 17 and from houston, tx. today my cousin who lives in london is in houston at hilton hotel. me and mom have got go see them but i'm a bit nervous because i've never really met them. i'm not sure if i have to act different because they are from london or not please help!
2007-09-22 23:51:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Of course not!! Just be you!
2007-09-22 23:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sal*UK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you act any different? They are family. So what if you have never met them! Is this your cousin's first time in the States? If so, imagine their point of view.
Regardless, it's only a temporary thing. If it doesn't work out well it will be over soon. On the other hand, you could be meeting someone that you could get along with really well...
2007-09-23 04:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever people from different cultures meet there is some tension and discomfort - you're very fortunate because language is one of the most difficult to overcome and at least your cousin speaks English! In my many visits to the UK, I found that British people tend to embrace, and find friendly amusement, in our cultural differences. In some ways, American culture is fascinating to others, so be ready to answer a lot of questions! Find something you have in common to kick things off...even though I don't know much about soccer (football), David Beckham seems to be a great common topic on both sides of the Atlantic, covering sports, celebrity, fashion, music all in one topic!
2007-09-23 00:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by defmonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 05:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! They're just family, honey. Relax. You don't have to do anything special. Just treat them the same way you treat the cousins you see all the time, and you should be fine.
They may speak differently, or dress differently, but that's about it. It will all be good.
2007-09-22 23:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live fairly near London. We are not aliens I promse. Just be yourself and let your mom do the talking until you feel comfortable.
2007-09-22 23:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont say much--tht way you wont say nething stupd if u find urself comfortable talking different do so if not just wait nd listen to how the adults in ur family handle it --if ur not comfortable one bt be urself but not too much of urself --control it a bit --how bad could you be ???lol anyway all the best!!!
2007-09-22 23:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by jeffy v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself hon, I'm from London and I can tell you, they are just the same as you or I. Have a great time hon.
2007-09-22 23:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! Be yourself, get their email and stay intouch. maybe you can go visit and explore Europe. Why would yo ube nervous...they are probably so excited to meet you!
2007-09-22 23:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by felicitydarkcloudsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and dive in because you may not get to meet your cousin again.
2007-09-22 23:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding right? I would make friends in a hurry and start planning my trip to visit them!!!!
2007-09-22 23:55:15 · answer #11 · answered by Rocko Barbella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋