I just left my country to study in the uk.i'm about 7 days here and i feel terrible.my parents after being by my side for the first 5 days they had to return to my country for work purposes.Now i can't stop crying all the time cause i miss them SO MUCH.i want to go back to my familiar places with my old friends.i can't stand any longer cause i feel myself falling apart.i'm actually thinking of asking from the university if that's possible to send me the work i have to do at home some way of distant studying.should i do that?should i leave all behind and go back to my friends and my familiar places?Please help i feel so confused.
2007-09-22 22:27:58 · 9 answers · asked by Robbie W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give it a little bit longer, try meeting some new friends, make an effort! If you still feel this way in a couple of weeks, then I'd say it might be a good idea if you looked for a way to study closer to home. Even if you have to take time away from school until you feel more comfortable away from home, you should do what makes you happy! If you're miserable, I doubt that you'll do very well in school!
2007-09-22 22:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to go to college then you are old enough to let go of the apron strings. Friends come and go, but family is forever and you know they are with you in mind and spirit and they will be there when you go home for vacation. It's time to spread your wings and experience your independence. Growing up is a good experience and getting an education is an absolute necessity. It's good therapy and you will have a higher self esteem when you have accomplished it on your own and your family and friends will be happy and very proud of you. You can do it! You are just feeling a little blue, but give it time because time heals and you might actually enjoy being more responsible.
2007-09-23 05:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay where you are and keep studying in the UK. I know right now it is really hard for you because you don't know anyone and nothing seems familiar..but once you've been in class for a few weeks you'll meet people and you'll get into a routine.
It is always hard to be out of your comfort zone. Call your friends..but don't go home just yet! Get involved in school activities.. I bet there are lots of other foreign students on your campus... maybe get together with them? Just be open and get yourself out there. You'll make new friends in no time!
2007-09-23 05:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by greyskymourning82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, stick with it. You can always keep in touch via the phone. Many students go to college far away from their hometown (not necessarily out of country, though), and can only come home for Christmas, Summer, etc. It is part of the college experience. You will grow...you will learn more about yourself. Enjoy it! Your homesickness will get better as you meet people.
2007-09-23 05:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by Serenity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is always a first time for everything. Maybe now you don't feel like it because everything is new to you. But part of growing up is accepting changes in your life. Changes brings responsibility. Don't be afraid of changes.It's a challenge to your new life.
2007-09-23 05:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not confused but you are too coward and timid to face new situations and challenges. You want to live under protective umbrella of your parents and friends. When will you become a MAN ?Stop whining and rise up bravely.
2007-09-23 05:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to talk to your parents.
Your having separation anxieties it sounds like.
You need to ask yourself why you went to another country in the 1st place to get your schooling?
Maybe it was because you were able to get a better education??
Again, talk to your parents, they should be able to help you..
2007-09-23 05:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just lonesome now.... You have to stick it out. You will adjust to your surroundings soon and find new friends. STICK IT OUT.. We all have to accept changes in life... Life is Filled with changes and challenges.. you'll be fine.
2007-09-23 05:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by NikkiNTexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u little white boi. how old r u u shouldnt be crying. shame on u. dont get me wrong i would help u out but since u told me u criend than no.
u sshould go bak
2007-09-23 07:32:12 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋