if you opened my question,you will find me asking help about my problem with my husband.he like to sit on the net than with me.i did do what (impress) told me ,we had a fight cause he was so angry with me cause i refuse to *** with him.i knew that he doesn't watch porn movies or anythings like this.but still have the same problem with him .i even ask him to teach me to drive(i don't drive yet) ,he isn't to excited to do it,he prefer to sit on the computer .i could get rid of the computer ,but i use it sometimes when he is at work to see my parents on the webcam.i dont want him to think of me as a ******,but as a human ,i tried to talk to him nicely ,no use .i dont know what else i can do???
2007-09-23 10:00:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Become independent and do your own thing.....Acquire a job, go to driving school. Buy your own vehicle. After which it will no longer bother you if he doesnt have full interest in you.....for YOU will have changed, and you won't NEED his interest. That will probably upset him as well. Best Wishes......
2007-09-23 10:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be addicted to the computer. Addiction is very hard to cure, however. Psychologists can use hypnosis to cure addiction. But I don't think your husband will agree to that.
You could threaten to leave him. Tell him if he does not tend to your needs as a husband, you will find somebody else and you will leave him. Perhaps you should only tell him this if you mean it, and if you're ready to leave him. But addiction does destroy relationships, so if things don't change soon, I don't believe you will be staying with him anyway. Good luck with everything.
2007-09-23 10:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate_on_the_Moon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have places that will teach you how to drive. Look in the yellow pages. Go out and do things on your own.
2007-09-23 10:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suspect a cheater but you know him better than me just look on the computer under history and see what he is up to good luck
2007-09-23 10:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by Heather C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the silent treatment, make yourself really attractive then a week or so later ask him to give you a driving lesson and then do something romantic with him.
2007-09-23 10:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Carrotsz!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never lose hope is the moral of the story.
2007-09-23 10:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by little girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your husband to a marriage counsellor.
2007-09-23 10:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Throw the d-a-m-n thing out the window..... That'll get his attention!!!
2007-09-23 10:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it so that you have to have to have a password to get on it & don't give him the password
2007-09-23 10:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by MILF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋