Don't wanna lose him... insecurity is driving me nuts!! help please?

Question

my bf and i are together for 8 months. he was just here until about an hour ago. when we're together (which is once/twice a week because i'm at a dormatory an hour away from home) everything is so fun, great, relaxed. i had some trouble opening up to him again (we were together once before, couple of years ago) at first, which caused some problems for us like me being too distant, but now everything is a loooot better.
tomorrow is his first day of first year hometown university (he's one year younger, though very mature). i really fear he will meet someone new. i am pretty insecure about my looks: i am a sweet girl, lots of friends and the thing is... i don't look bad at all :-/ i have a nice body, a sweet face. but whenever i see a girl walking down the street - even if she's less pretty than me - i get insecure. i'm all like oh no, what if she would go after him...

i think this is due to the fact that last time we were together a girl he was friends with started seducing him (but by telling him how i wasn't nice enough to him, fixating my bad sides - which was really mean, because we were going through rough times and i wasn't a bad gf). after some time we broke up and he ended up with her. he realised after about 2 years that she wasn't what he wanted and stopped seeing her. we got back to being friends, but the spark soon set in again and after a couple of months we were back together. it's just that now, i fear losing him to some other girl again.
at the beginning of last academic year, i had another bf. we went to dorm together and i thought oh how nice, we'll have so much fun. but he got really selfish (because of all his sudden freedom = no longer living at home) and changed a lot. so we broke up. eventhough my current bf is way more stabil a fear losing him. eventhough he says he loves me and doesn't want any1 else. he's really sweet. help

Answer 1

Sorry hunnie your being fool-hearty, the fact isn't that you don't trust them other ladies, or you don't trust your looks (you even said that you smart hearted but dumb thinking lover you) its him you don't trust. Only thing gluein that relatioship together is love for love sack. Which ammounts to two daydreamers playing with each others emotions. Love with out purpose is doomed to fail, you've been warned, but your heart will do that for me again and again, now if only that brain could catch on.... So really BE CAREFUL!!!! I see heart-ache again that I'm more then sure that love is blinding you to, but not your heart, good luck with this........