Family & Relationships - 23 September 2007

2007-09-23 09:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by lion-guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-23 09:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She Is Also Pregnant And Im Invited To The Wedding What Am I To Do It Feels Sooo Wrong Please Help

2007-09-23 09:45:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A few weeks ago I got an email from this girl I went to high school with. We were supposedly close, but there was always a slight competition between us. In the email she went on and on about what a mean person I was in high school and how sad and pathetic it was that I always thought I was better than her. Then she went on and on about how great her life was and how her boyfriend's a millionaire at USC and is a UFC cage fighter. She also said that my husband was ugly and that my smile looked fake (of my wedding picture that I have posted in my facebook account). Now, I'll admit that I wasn't perfect Mary Sunshine in high school, but who is? None of my other friends think of me in that way and to those that I wasn't particularly kind to, they've moved on and we're friends now. What on earth would cause this girl to write something so spiteful and hate-filled to someone she hasn't seen in five years? Should I do anything about it or just ignore it?

2007-09-23 09:44:55 · 27 answers · asked by rainbowreggie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-23 09:43:21 · 20 answers · asked by Hilllbilly_gal 5 in Weddings

2007-09-23 09:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i suspected for years but i always chalked it up to being over jeolous. now she swares it only happen once but she told me for years she had always been true blue. I have always been faithful to her. I dont no why but i still love her i just dont trust her anymore.we have a13 year old daughter together and a 17 year old son from her previous marrige which i have raised since he was 2. should i leave her and if i did is there a women left out there who knows how to be true to someone.

2007-09-23 09:41:20 · 18 answers · asked by Jeremy G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please mention your gender and age [ at that time ] and teel that what it fels like,
1-). are you afraid.
2-). are you excited.
do you have plan to go for a baby at that time ???

2007-09-23 09:39:27 · 9 answers · asked by little girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf is 14 and Im in 8th grade but I think it is true love because I have never felt this way. I don't want another bf in the world and I want to be with him. He feels the same way.

2007-09-23 09:36:20 · 17 answers · asked by brandi_richcheer14 1 in Singles & Dating

ok , im 37 and my girlfriend is 38 . We have been going out for 3 years and are going to get married in vegas next weekend . But heres the thing , her father doesnt know . and hes like the only familly she has left .

but the thing is he hates me and about a year ago she told him that we broke up just so he would get off her back . hes hated every boyfriend shes ever had she says and said that he doesnt want her to ever get married . now hes an angry man period so if she tells him this then he might have another heart attack and die . and thats not good . But shes kept this secret for 2 years and my mom knows . what should she do....

2007-09-23 09:33:21 · 13 answers · asked by roughdraftie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This Is A Bit Of An Wierd Question But How Old Do U Think You Need To be Before You Shave Your Pubic Hair . Im 14 And My Freinds Are Starting To Do Stuff With There Boyfriends The Other Day I Herd One Of My Friends Saying Good Job I Shaved ...So I Want Your Oppinion =]

2007-09-23 09:31:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which do u prefer, size, and why?

2007-09-23 09:29:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, we broke up a long time ago, but it hurts my feelings. Do I have the right to be upset, or am I just being ridiculous? =/

2007-09-23 09:29:02 · 17 answers · asked by Natalija Monster 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my parents paid for my sister to go to college but there still making payments for like another 5 years i think. now my parents and i really hate her becuase she has no respect for any of us and she is wasted her life on some guy, well now she is a low life doing drugs and stuff and she is not using her college skills or anything to get a job, we dont want anything to do with her, is there any way that we can have her take over payments for the school because my parents are paying hundreds of dollars a month for nothing, she ovibusoly doesnt want to pay them so is there anything that we can do

2007-09-23 09:24:09 · 5 answers · asked by yup yup 3 in Family

My boyfriend is in the Army and is deployed to Iraq. I want to send him some sexy pictures of me... I'm not that creative when it comes to this kind of stuff and I'm just not sure how to pose for them. Any ideas? Nude, semi-nude... any! Help me!

2007-09-23 09:23:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are writers. She is about 2/3's into her latest novel based on her life. I'm in it, our neighbors, friends and family, etc. She is the protagonist and she hates the way her husband screws so she has sex with the mailman. Then she has sex with the neighbor. Then with her husbands best friend. All of these characters are people we know. i asked if there was any fact in fiction and she said it was poetic license. Then one day she turns down my advances by saying, "I've had enough of your little prick, Frank." Then she writes her narrator saying the same thing to her husband the next day and the internal monologue says: "I'm getting bored with him. I'll have sex with his boss tomorrow." Should I be worried about this?

2007-09-23 09:23:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is extremely afraid of the color pink, and I'm not even kidding. What could be the reason? He doesn't know why, he just IS.

It's really funny. I can chase him around a room holding my pink DS. >_< It's hilarious, but it's mean, too... -snorts-

2007-09-23 09:22:52 · 22 answers · asked by fanny bandits 4 in Singles & Dating

I sometimes feel my boyfriend loves me and sometimes I feel he does not by his accions and behavior. I feel his not been completelly truthful with me.

2007-09-23 09:22:45 · 6 answers · asked by Canela 3 in Singles & Dating

im 18 next month and have been with my boyfriend who is 21 for 12 months now my parents absolutley love him and it was all going great.
we decided to go away for the weekend we went out on the friday night got back to the hotel quite drunk at about 3am and had totally outrageous sex. my phone was on the bed and wasnt on keys lock so i unknowingly clicked it and it called the last person that called, that person being my mother!! obviously she was in bed and didnt answer it but it went onto her voicemail!!!!
my parents go to church and dont believe in the whole sex before marriage thing and have always preeched about it to me growing up. and the worst way to find out that your daughter is having sex is to actuallly hear her at it!!
i cant believe it i feel absolutley terrible that they heared it and i dont know what to do! i know i am legal but i feel like they hate me and feel totally disgusted!

2007-09-23 09:22:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 09:21:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our wedding will be my fiance's 2nd and my first (and only) marriage. We have been living together for quite some time. Are we still supposed to register for gifts? I think it sounds fun, but I don't know if it would be considered a faux pas or not. What are the guidlines for this?

2007-09-23 09:20:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been married for 11 years and have 2 7 year olds. I feel like I have become a married single parent. Talking doesn't work and we almost filed divorce over a year ago at my request but I decided not to. Anyone have the same issues.

2007-09-23 09:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by allmine227 2 in Marriage & Divorce

basically i fell in love with this guy at work and asked him out but he turned me down. i couldnt get over him so after a month i told him the truth that i just cant forget him. from there we started meeting up and the physical part of it just happened and i lost my virginity to him. so we're together but he doesnt want anyone to know we're seeing each other. i feel that he's with me just for the sex, and i got no clue what to do about it.. help!

2007-09-23 09:18:32 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all the homework and parent folder. I am the custodial parent with physical placement, we have joint custody and they live in another township 45 minutes away. I also have a letter she wrote to the teacher requesting this folder and homework. How do I set them straight and can I file a motion against her/him? Our stipulation states nothing about homework responsibilities.

2007-09-23 09:18:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy and don't know if he likes me back! :(

2007-09-23 09:16:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i'm not comfortable when im with guys like for example i'm kinda seeing this guy and when were out and sober i can get shy and i dont know whats exceptable if i can just kiss him or what im so concious he'll think i'm weird and when were texting and the sexy talk comes up i never know what to say!! like when i'm drunk and out with him its so easy i feel more confident with him what do i do?!
Ok same guy diff problem i reeeeeeli like this guy but b4 we started kissing we both discussed relationships and neither of us wanted one which is grand but now i do and i told him last nyt when i was drunk and he don't want one i really like him and i don't want to stop kissing him and stuff but it's going know where so i dunno what to do?!?!
O same guy again it's his birthday tues week were going to be at the debs(prom thing) im going with my friend he's going with his but like do i get him anything or what?!
Im so inexperienced in relationships!! Advise me xxx

2007-09-23 09:15:40 · 1 answers · asked by ire_girl_17 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal to begin to have nothing in common with your friends after you get married?

story:

OK I had 2 best friends one was my age and the other was a year younger. but after i got married and we would go to the mall or what ever they would be all OHH look at that ***, or man he is hot, stuff like that i wasn't into chasing guys anymore i had my man and i was happy. So now that i have been married a few months I have not the first thing in common with them, there in high school im studying at home, they like to shop, i like to save money, you know stuff liek that.

Is it normal that we no longer have anything in common? and do most newly weds go throu this? i am young and married and i am so happy.

2007-09-23 09:15:04 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Nolan 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If ur bf livez really far & cant spend time with u iz it ok 2 have a new bf who livez close 2 u?
**i dont think thatz rite becuz itz not fair........how bout u?

2007-09-23 09:14:01 · 7 answers · asked by ~*â?¥Glamorousâ?¥*~ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-23 09:12:29 · 14 answers · asked by little girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm female, just turned 60 - very youthful and energetic. The man I'm married to is a shadow of what he was when I married him. He's a cynical, bitter man, with no sense of humor and zest for living. Won't take vacations, not interested in socializing - through the years has become my complete opposite.

Divorce is out of the question. I don't have the energy to go through it or the desire to upset my family or jepodize my home .
I'm in counseling, grateful to have a health plan that covers 2 visits a month.

What I'd like to know is "are there more people like me out there?" Married to someone who changed for the worst through the years, in a joyless marriage, shaking your head wondering how you ever ended up like this in what should be the best years of your life?

This is misery.

Serious answers only please.

2007-09-23 09:07:37 · 13 answers · asked by Lucy R 1 in Marriage & Divorce