I mean, we broke up a long time ago, but it hurts my feelings. Do I have the right to be upset, or am I just being ridiculous? =/
2007-09-23 09:29:02 · 17 answers · asked by Natalija Monster 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has no feelings for him, and I still kinda do...,
2007-09-23 09:44:09 · update #1
It was my first boyfriend... =[
2007-09-23 09:47:48 · update #2
you shouldnt be upset because that was ur past.....its going to be hard for u to see that ur sister and ur ex are getting close but thats human...people get to know each other and thats how relationships start....so u dont have a right to be upset to ur ex or your sis....but its kinda wrong that she would that and its kinda nasty that she's picking up ur leftovers....good luck
2007-09-23 09:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by lilruby052001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm tough situation. It is a bit weird I agree, but not something to make a huge fuss about because people will just imply that you're jealous, you still want him, regardless of whether you do or don't.
Don't give it too much thought, it could be that your sister or your ex are trying to get some kind of reaction from you for some reason.
2007-09-23 09:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by cara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have the right to be upset! A person's previous relationships are off limits to a relation or friend. Shame on your sister. Have you asked her if it would hurt her if the shoe was on the other foot? Try not to dwell on it, but it is totally understandable that it would have hurt you.
2007-09-23 09:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being ridiculous. As you said, "it was a long time ago" and why do you care? If you are that upset, perhaps it's because you still have feelings for him.
2007-09-23 09:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's your ex. She's your sister. If they have feelings for each other, let them be. Get over it. Move along. Life goes on.
2007-09-23 09:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!
you deffinitly have a right to be upset even if you guys did break up a long time ago.
as long as your not planning to do something horriable to your sister i think its perfectly natural to be upset.
2007-09-23 09:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by stephkunksxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be upset. It is an unspoken rule, friends do not date or kiss their friends ex's.
2007-09-23 09:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by curlies55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you still have feelings for your ex. Find out why this is bothering you so much. I feel uncomfortable with my sister kissing my ex as I am needing .......................what?
2007-09-23 09:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're having a normal reaction. But he's your ex. So, if your sister kissed him then you shouldn't have any problems with it b/c you're not together anymore...
2007-09-23 09:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by sk8tbrdswdtw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um hell yes you have a reason to be upset. your sister is supposed to be one of the closest people in your life. just tell her how it makes you feel, hopefully she'll understand.
2007-09-23 09:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋