My wife and I are writers. She is about 2/3's into her latest novel based on her life. I'm in it, our neighbors, friends and family, etc. She is the protagonist and she hates the way her husband screws so she has sex with the mailman. Then she has sex with the neighbor. Then with her husbands best friend. All of these characters are people we know. i asked if there was any fact in fiction and she said it was poetic license. Then one day she turns down my advances by saying, "I've had enough of your little prick, Frank." Then she writes her narrator saying the same thing to her husband the next day and the internal monologue says: "I'm getting bored with him. I'll have sex with his boss tomorrow." Should I be worried about this?
2007-09-23 09:23:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a copy of that transcript and bring it to a lawyer, she is done with you when she starts to contemplate others. And may have acted upon it. The writing will show how abusive she is towards you, that's right she is abusive from what little you let us read.
2007-09-23 10:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Richtofen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she include your response in the novel as well? She may have been doing some research!
I've heard of method acting and actors allowing the character to take over, but I don't believe it happens that often with writers. I know a lot of them, and we may become surly, non-communicative and very hard to live with, but I don't know of any who have gone to such lengths.
I'd not only be worried, I'd start packing. Let her write that in!!!
2007-09-23 19:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has a very vivid imagination. However, if she's treating/reacting to you differently, then I expect she's trying to tell you something. I strongly suggest you LISTEN. You may also begin to seek the advice of a good divorce attny. That too may be in the not too distant future.
I hope you have no children. Best Wishes!
2007-09-23 16:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!! She's got some nerve!!!! Does she not even explain toyou whether or not its fact or fiction?? I would be worried. Yes. Its like a slap in the face. Lucy Got some splainin to do!!!!
2007-09-23 16:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by tammy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait and see if she actually goes and have sex with ur boss, ask ur boss if u are suspicious or maybe ur best friend or the neighbor. someone may tell and u may know for sure.
2007-09-23 16:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by mama2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!!!! wow, when does this hit the shelves? no, seriously it sounds like your wife is really acting out her secret fantasies...i dunno if that's fact or fiction. if you trust your wife, then i wouldn't be worried, but if you are in doubt, then i probably would worry. stop and ask her what's the meaning of all this? is she going through a midlife crisis or something? ASK HER!
2007-09-23 16:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigator... then you'll know who all she's been screwing around with ;)
2007-09-23 16:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um Yep
2007-09-23 17:16:08 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats interesting..maybe she is getting all her sexual frustrations out in her book so she won't have to do it in real life..and thats a good thing for you
2007-09-23 16:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by Billie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your wife is nutz, and that if she doesnt like the way you **** then tell her to teach and or show you how she likes it if not to stop bitching.
2007-09-23 16:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by Nessaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋