My brother and mtoher think i am gay by the way i act.
I am always alone in my room watching t.v or im-ing and my dad is the only one along with my friends that understand me.
I know i am not gay and never will be but should i ignore them or just tell them i am not gay and never will be?
2007-09-23 10:32:53 · 5 answers · asked by Stuffe s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well my mopm i am pretty sure is just teasing me lol but my bro is getting very rude.
lol i was thinking about just standing up to him like i did my friend and saying " why are you accusing me of being gay are you just hiding your feelings for a dude by pickign on me?"
2007-09-23 10:46:08 · update #1
like i said my mom is just teasing me.. she has done it before and i asked her to stop and she did, i think she does it when my dad tells her i am talking to a girl.
2007-09-23 10:52:27 · update #2
Talk to your counselor at school. What your mother is doing may be considered abuse.
2007-09-23 10:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family what you're telling us. Tell them how you feel about their comments about you. Make sure they know you are not gay. Pay attention to how you act, maybe videotape yourself in a normal conversation with a friend, etc., maybe you will be able to see what your parents see that make them think such things. If they think your gay, others might too, and you should try to change your ways a bit if this is how others view you.
If people continue to think you are gay, talk to your Dad or one of your friends a little more. Your mother and brother would probably take your Dad's word for it if he told them that you are not gay.
2007-09-23 17:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sound like an introverted type to me. Maybe your mom and bro are more outgoing and think you have to be like them. If they make comments you could remind them that everyone is different. If they still make comments - ignore them or ask your dad for help.
You are sooooo lucky to have a dad and friends that understand because that's more than a lot of people have.
2007-09-23 17:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you haven't told them that yo're not gay and never will be, you might as well tell them. If they don't believe you, just ignore them, or ask your dad to help you convince them. Invite your other guy friends over, and just hang, maybe they'll change their minds. Or, go o na camping trip with your dad - it'll give them time to think about it and give you time away from their opinions. How many gay guys do they know anyway? Who are they to judge? And they're not dumb, they just jump to conclusions too easily.
2007-09-23 17:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you don't love them anymore.
2007-09-23 17:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋