My Boyfriend and I were friends before getting together. He had hes Girfriend and I had my boyfriend. Back in high school he cheated on hes ex a couple of times. When they broke up he was really hurt, I even found papers of him writing to god how much he regre it. I know it was back in high school but do u think is posible he will cheat on me. I dont know why is hunting me. He doest know, but I dont know what to do. I am scared that he did not change he said he change a lot. Without me asking him he tells me I am the only girl he wants to be with. I cheated on him w my ex. He gave me a chance to make it better. We r on the process of working things out. I dont know if I am like this because I cheated or because maybe he is. Help!
2007-09-23 12:45:03 · 8 answers · asked by ~~~~^~~~~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's strange how the people that cheat are the ones most worried about getting cheated on!
2007-09-23 12:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're most likely feeling this way because you cheated on him and on some level you feel as though you deserve it. (It would probably be a sad relief to you if he did). The thing is, karma aside, one thing has very little or nothing to do with the other. He's been a cheater in a past relationship and he lost it because of it, so there's a good chance he's learned that lesson once and for all. (After all you don't keep accidentally placing your hand on a hot stove, do you? And why not? Because you've learned definitively that excessive heat hurts. Likewise we learn other life lessons as well.) I will say this: that hurt you dished out is due to come back to you, but karma doesn't always take the forms we expect. In fact, the anxiety you're feeling now could be in part a bit of karmic payback coming your way, so you might as well relax (to whatever extent possible) and make your peace with yourself and your boyfriend as you try to repair the damage done. He's forgiven you, forgive yourself and go from there. Good luck.
2007-09-23 20:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey!!! I think you need a chill.
As it is said life never stops for someone same as the things will never be the same...
So I guess you need to forget all the past and give chance to the presents
I guess you are just loosing you present.
Just relax and enjoy the life......
2007-09-23 19:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i would just try to work out ya no dont rush into things to quick and dont go and cheat on him again ya no ya both had ur chances and found out that u dont like anyone but him so just take it slow and give it time to heal and i am sure that u guys will be fine and dont hold gruges on him from wat he did in high school we all do stuff that we regret and wouldnt do as adults especailly when it comes to love
2007-09-23 19:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only people i've seen that changed are devoted christians including me.
Only you know how he is, what do you think of him? Noone here will give you the right answer because their not you. So ask yourself the question.
2007-09-23 19:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get serious with him, ask him, "Is your window still open ?
" or "are you waiting for some one alse to come along..."
Ok, it might be true there can be hundreds of women out there better than you; but for now, you are here right in front of him; in his life, some one like you, only might come once....
2007-09-23 19:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by thiny72 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put your question in a simple way....
sadly.... yes
people don't change, and even if they do, change only happens rarely to people that have gone through some huge life-changing situation.
don't count on it =/
2007-09-23 19:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by xiaozelda 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
once a cheat....always a chance......good luck
2007-09-23 19:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋