I SERIOUSLY CANT LIVE WITHOUT A BOYFRIEND ITS JUST MY THING THERE S THIS GUY BUT HE DOESNT KNOW WHO THE H**L I AM HOW CAN I GET A HIM OR GET A BF I NEED HELP PLEASE
2007-09-23 12:28:14 · 35 answers · asked by missxcandyx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-09-23 12:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Know what type of guy you're looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor (if it's for humor always laugh at his jokes), or respect for other people's feelings.
Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new guys. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.
Introduce yourself. If you don't really know the guy you're eyeing, or if you don't really know that many guys worth calling a boyfriend in general, there are many ways you can get noticed.
Get to know him. Sometimes we become enamored with a fantasy that the guy can fit into, more than the real person himself. Make sure your intentions are genuine and show him how you feel. Be part-talker, part-listener. Show your interest, as meeting new people should be exciting, but also remember to refer to your own hobbies. Look for connections!
Become a friend. This can sometimes be risky if you do not move quickly. They may begin to think of you as a friend and nothing more.
See if the feeling is mutual. Read the signs. And while you can't force someone to like you, you can encourage him to give you a chance.
Show him how you can be an amazing girlfriend. Emphasize your best features. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally. Show your character.
Ask him out or keep repeating the steps above while he comes around on his own.
Move on if it's just not coming together. There are other fish in the sea, and there's more to life than having a boyfriend anyway!
2007-09-23 12:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by *Natalie.* :P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually women would have to have something to offer a man BEFORE she asks/ gets asked to b girlfriend. u sound a lil desperate, and life isn't all about boyfriend/girlfriend crap. y give urself more headaches than u deserve by going this route? if u were established, with a clear head on ur shoulders maybe this guy WOULD pay attention to u, but u must b giving off this "neediness" vibe that most men avoid like cryptonite. u don't need a boyfriend, but what u need is some self esteem classes and a lil bit of class and maybe men would start falling out of the sky for u. good luck
2007-09-23 12:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are only a few things you really "need" water and air. Boyfriends are so far down the list that it's almost invisible. Nobody 'needs" a boyfriend, and believe me, you CAN live without one. Trust me.
Let's say you focus on something else more positive. Reading, learning a new hobby, getting involved in your community, making cookies and giving them to the elderly or sick children. Do something that will bring you joy and others as well.
Later for boys - they will always be around and when they grow up - they are only
bigger boys....
2007-09-23 12:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying you need a boyfriend indicates that you are very immature and have no idea who you are. Without knowing who you are and being happy wth yourself means you will never make anyone else happy for any length of time. Stop looking, and you shall find.
PS- If you're really interested in a guy JUST TALK TO HIM. Ask questions about him. If he's interested he'll start asking questions about you. It-is-that-simple.
2007-09-23 12:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by hammond_eggor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes a person who seems too desperate. The only thing you'll get like that is something physical.
Cool down, first. Flirt maybe, but wait for a really great guy to come to you. Then get to know him before you even THINK of dating.
2007-09-23 12:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by Katelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you sound desperate. No guy is going to take you seriously with that attitude. Worry about your happiness and taking care of yourself, then a boyfriend will come along- when you least expect it.
2007-09-23 12:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by Fly girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you don't NEED a boyfriend and you sound really desperate, like you just want a friend with benefits. Second, if you want him to notice you, don't act easy or slutty just be yourself and smile and say hi when you see him and then he will come talk to you.
2007-09-23 12:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one NEEDS a boyfriend. You need to be confident and comfortable with yourself before you can really have a good relationship with anyone else. You sound too desperate to have ANYONE to latch onto to. Do not use a man to define yourself.
2007-09-23 12:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't NEED a boyfriend, you NEED to get to know yourself. You are going to find yourself in a series of bad relationships, replacing one loser with another. Sorry, but that is just my experience. After you get to know & love yourself, then go out and find someone that is going to love you & treat you right!
2007-09-23 12:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by katieisaswinger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you seem desperate..no offense.
um you don't want to force yourself into liking someone which will probably happen and you'll end up fooling yourself and break his heart in the end..trsut me, wait for the guy who gives you butterflies and all that nonsense you'll be so glad you found him just wait and if you stop looking he'll come to you seriously
2007-09-23 12:33:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋