two kidsand her parents full time and her other kid part of the time, she says she needs some time to herself but when seh does she goes off with some man and i get mad and i know i shouldnt care but i do and i wont talk to her and then she gets mad at me but there is things that i want to do too. and there is a produce man that is twenty years older than her and she knows that i dont like him, just like every other man that she is "just friends" with. I dont know what to do can you help me?
2007-09-23 12:57:35 · 5 answers · asked by Future Pfeiffer Falcon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yall are not helping (no offense) take it from my point of veiw
2007-09-23 13:11:08 · update #1
Your mom does need some time for herself. Just give her some space. I'm sure you and the family is her number 1 priority.She has feelings and deserves a life too.
2007-09-23 13:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by physco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are making assumptions about what she does with "some man". You could be wrong. And she does not only deserve some time for herself, she actually needs it. How does her doing stuff once in a while prevent you from doing stuff? I think you are jealous that you aren't enough for her and that she seeks affection and affirmation of herself somewhere besides home. It's understandable, but also something you will learn to understand as you grow older. Meanwhile, give Mom some space and respect. Sounds like she deserves it!
2007-09-23 20:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by naniannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she says she wants some time to herself, don't take that literally--she is refering to the fact that she wants some time to do whatever she wants to do. Sounds like your mom has been more than supportive of her family, and deserves that time to do as she wishes. She sounds very responsible, and so I sincerely doubt her company or "friends" are any less than that. Having to be a single mom and a grandma can make someone feel very old. Maybe some of these people she spends time with makes her feel young and a lady worth the attention.
I don't know why you are upset with her wanting to have male company, but you have to remember that she is not only a mother, but a woman with emotional needs. Maybe with that frame of mind, you may grow to swallow your frustration a little bit easier.
2007-09-23 20:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow Up! Your Mom, is an adult. if She gets into a relationship, that's a good thing. She doesn't sound like the kind of person who, would take off without the kids with, some guy. sooner or, later, You guys will be grown and, gone. no one wants to spend their lives alone. whats more, this guy doesn't sound that bad. not every guy would even pay any attention to, a woman, taking care of kids AND, grand kids. it would be best if, You stay out of adult Business until You mature, just a smidge.
2007-09-23 23:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by ny21tb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-23 20:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Annie C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋