I'm 20 years old. I'm a virgin. I've never been kissed and my friend wants to f'u'c'k' me really badly. I don't have any experience with dating and I've never even touched a guy really. Just a hug and today my co worker kissed my hand, other than that I'm pretty clueless. I think I have feelings of love for my friend, but I don't want just a FWB. He is use to having FWB's and wouldn't think twice about it. I might fall harder for him. I know I would. I want him to want me, not just for sex. I want a relationship with him. He is also pursuing another girl at his school right now. We are both 20. I'm so confused. Someone help me!!
2007-09-23 14:51:04 · 6 answers · asked by Super-Pop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think its a good idea, and I have a feeling that deep down you don't either. If you really want a true relationship, and you want your first time to be special, then you need to respect yourself, and save it for someone who will respect you as well.
You are still very young, and there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. I think you should think about this alot more. Do you really love this friend as more then a friend? I think even if you do find he loves you, and you do decide to have a relationship, that you should still give it time -- before sex -- like any normal couple, because things can change in a more intimate relationship.
2007-09-23 15:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Hamchopp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you really, really shouldn't date him. He sounds like someone I know...and recently, even though this guy is in a "semi-serious" relationship, he still hooked up with a girl at a convention. I don't think you can develop a relationship easily while he's still going for the FWBs, and I really don't think you should lose something so precious to a guy who doesn't care.
Find someone who is willing to let you go your own speed. If you don't, you're not going to be ready for making out and etc, much less screwing. And if you do stuff before you feel ready, most likely you're going to feel guilty and sick about it.
2007-09-23 21:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, explain to him that you don't want to be his FB, but a GF and see what he says about this. Let him know your feelings; on the other hand, if he pursuing another girl at school than you have a problem here. What if you two get together than how will you trust him in the realationship? I mean you guys aren't together and he's doing this already in front of your face.
2007-09-23 21:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a virgin is best thing cause gives you time to find that special person in your that you it will be 4 ever and if that friend wants to **** that bad then hes not a really to wait til the time is right and comfortable 4 you
love the best, babyface
2007-09-23 21:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by babyface0413 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest you forget about him --- or just remain friends --- dont get involved i truly dont think you could handle it emotionally ---- find someone that wants to be with you rather than wants just sex --- best wishes
2007-09-23 21:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then dont...
2007-09-23 21:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by bobdaMoFobuildr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋