Do you think some white women have trouble dealing with white male/asian female relationships?

Question

Trouble with it in the same way that some white men have trouble with black male/white female relationships? I was on a telephone dating/chatline thing the other day (I'll call myself a loser and save you the time) and this woman, who was white, had, instead of saying anything about hereself, recorded a greeting that was simply a rant about how nasty and ugly and pathetic she thought asian women were. I instantly thought to myself about what that woman, or any woman for that matter, might think if she had heard a man's greeting that was full of all the negative things he could think of about black men. I think any woman would be able to firgure out what motivated such an opinion or point of view. Also, I will admit that I find Asian women unfathomably more sexy and beautiful than women of any other race, and at times have confessed this to white women. Right away they try to pick apart what it is that is wrong with me that makes me like asian women.

They say things like "Oh you must be intimidated by strong white women" or "You just can't handle a white woman" Or they say things like "Asian women are too passive, you must want a woman you can control and make obey you" Nothing could be further from the truth, I'm very passive myself and would not want a relationship where my partner and I were anything other than equals. They're just Smokin' Hot! Even the older ones, hell, especially the older ones. To even just gaze momentarily upon their demure beauty revs me up with an intensity that is beyond description. But if I tried to tell a white woman who preferred black men that she must be a whore always looking for something bigger and better, or that she just had animosity for white men in general and was trying to get back at them I'd be accused of being a bigot, a racist, ignorant etc. Maybe she just thinks their way hot, thats what does it for her.

See, women were already doing it before i could finish my first additional details, assuming it is their submissiveness and passiveness that appeals to me. To me they are just so beautiful. Not to suggest that I am oblivious to the beauty of women of other races, I see it, acknowledge it, am aware of it. But what the beauty of an asian woman, in particular South East asian women (Thai, Laos, Filipina, not that china doll look, which is another conclusion that white women jump to when you admit you prefer asian girls, they think you want a geisha) what it does to me, on a hormonal level i guess, is so powerful it hurts me deep inside. Its purely physical. I mean I want to get to know them, and get inside their heads and learn all their secrets, but really their personality would have to be pretty bad to outweigh beauty of that magnitude.

Answer 1

i don't know man. i'm a white guy, and i don't find asian girls appealing at all. i think most of them are pretty ugly, as mean as that sounds. at best, they are decent. never really hot, in my opinion.

specifically, i don't like the flat faces, slanted eyes, yellow skin, very straight hair, and really curveless bodies.

i like white/hispanic, sometimes black.

Answer 2

I think more than white or Asian it's the person that matters most. There are very good, beautiful Asian girls as well as white girls. Culutre can only play a minor role in the person's character is that person is conscious of moral values in general. I aslo had a relationship with a guy who is a foreigner but found it uncomfortable becaue they are brought up in a different environment. Anyway I think it's better to focus on the woman's qualities than on the skin colour. I have learned this the hard way.

Answer 3

My opinion and we all have them obviously, it is a persons choice to date whoever they choose, whether it be a bi-racial relationship or not. The only time I feel a person should speak up about another persons relationship is when they see that the person is being treated poorly by the other person. If you want to date an Asian women their is nothing wrong with that and if you are meant to be with an Asian women or a white women YOU will know when you find that women. No one else has to choose your mate. I am a white women and I have no problem with a white man finding an Asian women, or another women more sexier than a white women, because we all have our own preferences weather it be the race or hair color or even eye color.

Answer 4

People have a problem with other cultures period. That's been the way of the world since the beginning of time. Naturally, a woman would assess herself and what was wrong with her if she continued to notice that the men in her own culture and heritage sought out women of other cultures and heritages. We all have issues with this mix and no matter how much love we have in the world - if a woman is alone and has no man, and sees a potential man would could otherwise be available to 'her' going out with some other woman - it hurts. It's never personal, but it still hurts. I also tend to think that there are some cultures who have been domininated by their men and they continue to have submissive ways which are attractive to white and black males. Asian women, for the most part, are very submissive and have been reared that way - therefore, this has been a great attraction to black and white men. I have also been told the size of these women in weight and statue have also been attractive. It all still boils down to a man's choice.

Answer 5

White male, Asian female & black female? I don't know that those are portrayed as good. I guess it depends, if they are married then no it's not good at all. In fact it's illegal and you can do jail time for it. However, if they are just dating then yeah the guy is considered a stud. It has nothing to do with the race, but all about the number.

Answer 6

When you are dealing with women, they all will automatically start picking things out. It is just the way we are. We have trouble accepting that your statement is the end of it, and we have to try to fix everything whether it is broken or not. The thing is, men do not want us to do that. They usually either just want us to listen or to give our opinion, not tell them how to do things. I am white, and I do not have a problem with white men dating asians. Actually, we have a very close friend who is dating one and has never been happier. If Asian women grew up following the rules of their culture, then they will treat their men like kings bc that is how they are raised. I think it is a good thing.

Answer 7

Yeah, try being an Asian woman.... some non-Asian women automatically don't like Asians. Why? I don't know... in their minds, it's always our fault. They don't even know why themselves, it's just based on our hair/skin/eye color. Definitely not nice.

Answer 8

My wife is the same damn way, but then again she knows about several of the Asian women I have been involved with.

Answer 9

Racism abounds.
My wife is Japanese.
The woman probably can't compete with an Asian woman because she is fat and ugly so she tries to put them down.
Sorry, I should not have said that, it is discriminatory toward ugly fat chicks, but I love my wife!

Answer 10

i doubt as much as Asian men have trouble. Leave our women alone lol just playing.