my boyfriend said l could go to thailand with him and his friends family for a hoilday for two wks in april.but now hes just told me that theres not enough tickets of me to come although hes still going.
would you be upset? he said that he wont go if it means that much to me,and we can go on hoil somewhere else for the two wks. what should l do? was l right to be upset? l feel really unwanted. should l tell him go without me? or get him to take me esle where? l cried all last night over this please help me.
2007-09-23 21:30:16 · 24 answers · asked by hunnybunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldnt keep him
2007-09-23 21:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely be upset, but I also want to know why there aren't enough tickets now. If it's because of a money thing, (I know it's practically impossible, but...) try not to be offended. But if it's a we-just-forgot-to-order-yours thing, then I would feel a little miffed. But even worse (and do not assume this is what's going on) he may have purposefully not gotten you one because he feels like he needs a break from you.
Maybe go on hol. somewhere else at a later date, and give your boyfriend some cool-off time for those two weeks. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and you guys can write cute emails to each other to keep in touch, and you can have some time to pamper your fabulous self.
Either way, I do NOT think he's trying to break up with you or anything like that, especially because he offered to go somewhere else with you. Trust him on that.
Boys are like rubber bands. Sometimes they want to be close and all wrapped up in your business, then they want to stretch out and have some space.... and then they'll come springing back to you and wonder why they ever needed a break. Good luck!!
2007-09-23 21:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jeannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try like hell to get some money and buy a ticket for yourself. If whoever got the tickets didn't think that you shouldn't be included then I think that he should stay with you, I know if I were in your shoes I would be really pissed. Go to priceline.com they have really good quick fast deals on tickets and all you need is the confromation number you don't even need the ticket just the confirmation number. I hope this helps.
2007-09-23 21:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
April? Thats 7 months away? Could the airline be fully booked this early? I dont cant get. you have all the right to be upset. Only you can decide if you'll let him go or not. But tell him how you feel, Im sure you'll settle this, once you told how you really feel.
2007-09-23 21:42:11 · answer #4 · answered by totit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 06:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place it is unbelievable that you are not getting tickets. You check with the airlines they will be having some special quota which they issue in case of emergencies and in the last minute. There are different airlines, Check with them. Keep your dates flexible +2 or -2 so that you may get. ensure that you win and go with him. Spare him not and don't let him go alone.
2007-09-24 22:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Raj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose that you love your boyfriend. You should not prevent him to go to Thailand, it is only for two weeks and he is not alone, his friend's family will take care about him.
You should be happy for him that he has the luck to make such a nice journey so don't begrudge it. If you convince him to stay or go somewhere else with you, believe me, one fine day he will reproach and it could lead to unhappy results.
Let him make this journey - and dont cry, he will be back.
2007-09-23 21:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Ricky H on this, It is family also.
Think how youd feel without your family, I do understand the deep seated fear of rejection greatly, I just finished realizing my own ingrained fears actually set me up for it by appearing
desperate, you feel desperate...But your not, sounds like hes really thinking of you, so remain calm talk to friends, put a smile on, think of the best outcome instead of the worst...You are worth it, you will be strong, talk to yourself more possitive each and every day of your life.
2007-09-23 21:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not necessary to be too much upset. Being a little bit sad is OK. I have learned from Tinkerbell:
"Remember that the people that matter don't mind and the people that mind don't matter.
-Dr. Suess"
You should tell him that you love spend time with him. Tell your feeling and try to love him and understand him. This trip may be important for him.
2007-09-23 21:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by light candle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, but take a vacation with him another time. If it means that much to you, why can't you pay for your own ticket to Thailand? If you can't afford it, then there's not that much you can do. He sounds like he wants to go. If you don't let him go, he might end up resenting you for that.
2007-09-23 21:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by lordmisrule2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be a family outing and maybe his parents thought that if u tagged along, they may have to pay...
But it's just a family outing actually, so why feel upset? it's ok, right??
Try suggesting him that what if u two go elsewhere
2007-09-23 21:38:27 · answer #11 · answered by Huang K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋