I used to live with 3 other people, 1 of them I got on really well with, we all then moved into our own places for about 7 months. Now me and this other housemate (male) having decided to move back intogether, we've found the house, and are moving in together in 2 days. The problem is that I think Im in love with him, I get nervous when I see him, and feel quite protective and jealous if he talks about other girls. What do you guys think I should do? Or do you think its just sisterly love because we live together? Im confused but cant stop thinking about him. Im so nervous about moving in with him.
2007-09-23 22:41:20 · 8 answers · asked by KJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You probably have a crush on him. Don't make any moves until you can decipher how he feels to, you don't want to ruin your friendship with him. The best thing to do is give yourself and him time, and try not to be protective and jealous, it's not a quality that men find attractive in women. Take this opportunity to find out if he is the type of guy you would want to be involved with. Living with someone reveals a lot about the person. Pay attention to his habits, and his behavior. If you still like him, ask him out for coffee or something casual. Trust me, if you both have feelings for each other, living together as you are, everything will work itself out.
2007-09-23 22:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by sos_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should put all your cards on the table, and let him know how you feel. If you move in and he dates girls, and brings them home you are not going to have a good time and in will cause problems. Honesty is the best policy, if you don't want to get hurt.
2007-09-23 22:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you like him before you move in. It could be a very awkward situation if he does not return your feelings, an the two of you are living together.
2007-09-23 22:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is something created between to people. Not to preach about love, but really you just have a huge crush on him. Just hit on him or something or tell him you like him and go from there. That's the only way. If he doesn't like you tough luck, find another guy.
2007-09-23 22:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is more than 'sisterly'. Make the move and let him know you like him.
2007-09-23 22:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by AdultMale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can stay with him in a house but make sure he can take ur advantage if he comes to kno u like him too much .......
so dnt tell ur feelings in first moment..... analyse ur feelings... be good frnds, study his behaviour towards u ... nd then take ur move...
2007-09-23 23:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk to him about your feelings? Maybe he has some feelings for you.
2007-09-23 22:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfsheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out... the worst that might happen is that he'll say no
2007-09-23 22:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋