Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

2007-09-21 03:38:06 · 10 answers · asked by ~* Daydreamer *~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm referring to weight gain, illness, losing hair, skin disease, menopause, etc.

2007-09-21 03:35:15 · 19 answers · asked by m23boyz@ameritech.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

passager side and his wife in back seat. Is this normal? Whats wrong with the picture?

2007-09-21 03:35:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 20 year old guy and I really like this 36-37 year old women at work. Wev'e known eachother for a few months now and we get on really well and we can talk to eachother about anything. Iv'e flirted with her a bit as I like her in that way and I think she now knows that I like her. I go out of my way at work just to talk to her too.
Do I have a chance at all and do women in their 30's consider dating a younger guy?? Do you think the age gap is a problem too?? Like a younger guy dating an older women.
What could I do to make her like me in that certain way if anything?????? I really like her but maybe we should just be friends at the moment and go from there....
She always smiles at me whenever she sees me even if it's across the room and she will always come up to me and start talking to me or say 'hi' etc...
Maybe it's just her good natured personality but how can I try and make her like me in that way if it's entirely possible?
any advise would be much appreciated. thanks!

2007-09-21 03:34:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me n my sis made a new friend recently. she's asian(malaysian) (im asian too) we went to her house n me n her played MMORPG's like toontown and pirate king when her aunt(she is put in uk by parents for education,they live in malaysia) came home with her bro. he has asian eyes like me and my freind but is white and blond! i asked her if he was her step/adopted/half-bro or if dere was a mix up at the hospital.she and her bro. said no. they showed me a picture of their parents and both her parents look malay or some other south-east asian group. how is this possible?my friend n me have brown skin btw- im indian n burmese(also a bit native american)

2007-09-21 03:34:47 · 11 answers · asked by noob hustler 2 in Family

I wanted to get all of this done today, but the original is locked up in the gun safe, and I have about 10 copies- can I use those? I've tried calling the SSI office but it's been busy all morning....

2007-09-21 03:34:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-21 03:34:21 · 11 answers · asked by christina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, i'm 15 and my bf n i have been going out for a month now...but i just...feel differently about him now.

My feelings for him have faded and when he tries to be affectionate or anything like that, it annoys me a bit.

He's really clingy as well and when I go on a date with him, he won't let me go, he always has to have his arm around me, it makes me feel claustrophobic almost.

I just don't think things are working out, I"m starting to talk to him really bluntly and if its a good idea to end things with him, then i wanna do it soon before i say anything wrong.

What should i do?

Ps:
all his friends tell me, that hes head over heels for me too. so if i break up with him, he'll b realli hurt, right?

2007-09-21 03:33:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you where in a group of friends and their was a blow up between you and another member. She has always been the more outwardly emotional person. So most people thought she took it harder then you.

Now here is the rub. The other members of the group have told you that they need to spend time with her because of this and that if they spend time with you she finds it very upsetting.

My problem is. It has now been 2 months and they are saying it will be at least another month till we can start doing things again. My problem is I'm thinking I don't want them back. This whole thing has me feeling like a second rate friend or to truely doubt if we where even friends in the first place. I'm okay with the time they spend with her. What I'm not okay with is the cold sholder.

Am I reading more into this then I should or am I feeling like most people would.

2007-09-21 03:33:13 · 10 answers · asked by Just a Guy 3 in Friends

The wife and the bull!!!
A man takes his wife to the county livestock show, and they head down the aisle that houses the bulls. The sign on the first stall states, THIS BULL MATED 50 TIMES LAST YEAR.

The wife turns to her husband and says, “He mated 50 times in a year. Isn’t that nice!” After passing a bull that had mated 65 times, she grinningly quips, “You could learn from this one!”

They reach the last bull, whose ownder is stroking the massive beast’s head. “How many times has your bull mated this year?” asks the wife.

“This here’s the pride of the County: 365 times, ma’am.”

The wife’s jaw drops, and she turns to her husband. “Wow! You could really learn from this one. You should ask him what his secret is!”

The fed-up man turns to the breeder and says,

“Hey, was it all with the same cow, i doubt it?”

HAPPY FRIDAY

2007-09-21 03:30:28 · 11 answers · asked by Changed4the Better :-i 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a very attractive attorney who can't seem to get a date. I am physically fit - 5'3" tall and weight in at 132 pounds. Most people find me very funny and tell me I am very easy going, down to earth, and never let anything bother me. Men flirt constantly but they don't ask me out and when I ask them out, they seem to want to dance around with the idea. Do men find well-educated females intimidating or are we off limits for some secret reason? I had a guy tell me once that he didn't think he was up to my standards.

2007-09-21 03:28:56 · 46 answers · asked by Susan G 2 in Singles & Dating

This is my sister's situation:
She lost her job 2 years ago. Got married 3 months ago with man who she loved very much and who seems loved her.
He has a very good job, not rich, not poore and his family has money.
Now he is drank every evening after work, his constant explanation of that that she doesn't have a job. She is trying to get job now, but it takes time. She is angry and upset with him all the time. Which as he is saying, makes him more unhappy and more drank...
The truth is that he didn't change a bit. He was drinking like that almost all his life. She just didn't want to see or believe in it. Now she can't stand him when he is drank, but still love him very much.
He swears that it will change when she got a job.
But for right now he is drinking and waching porn, she can't get a job and getting more and more depressed.
No children.

Do you think is there any posibility for change?

Sorry for mistakes.

2007-09-21 03:26:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 23 and i have been going out with this guy for 5 months. He wants to have a baby with me or marry me. i have a nice job and i think i'll be able to sustain a baby or to wed but honestly, im not ready with either one of those. i tried explaining to him but he seems not to get my reasoning. I love him and i dont want to lose him. What can i do? he really does treat me nice.

2007-09-21 03:25:01 · 13 answers · asked by fine 2 in Singles & Dating

how can you justify a betrayal of friends and former girlfriend. it happened a long time ago and they're all gone from my life. but the fact still remains that i was betrayed and nothing ever came back to them for it. i know its just a move on, forgive, forget, etc. but what if it still makes you mad even years later?

2007-09-21 03:24:54 · 14 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother just got evicted for non payment of rent. She wants to move in with me and look for a bigger apartment so i can move with her and help witht he bills. I have had my own apartment since i was 17 because we would always get thrown out she nevers pays rent. I have a 5 month year old and a 2 bedroom i just moved ito so she can have her own room. My mom has 3 other kids. I love her and i wouldn't mind taking in my siblings but if we were to get a bigger place together she wouldn't pay her portion of the rent/utilites and i don't want to go through that s*** all over again when i have my own apartment and my child to worry about. Please please help!!!!

2007-09-21 03:21:40 · 12 answers · asked by natalieteixeira 1 in Family

To you single men out there would you date a gal who has only been w one man whom she married now divorced. She had been w the same man ever since she was 18 now in late 20s. Or would you rather date a woman who has been w other men that has more experience in a relationship? Asking on behalf of a lady I know who isnt having much luck in the dating field.

2007-09-21 03:20:29 · 9 answers · asked by hotmoma1 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife regularly complains about her boss who flirts with the ladies, saying suggestive things and some other inappropriate behavior. Because of that I didn't like her boss and really couldn't stand him for putting my wife in such a state. Last week at a party, my wife and I had to hang out with her boss and I realize he is a pretty attractive man. Also I noticed that my wife acted very strange around him. It seems to me that my wife is in fact very much into him and has not been telling me the truth. Should I be worried that my wife might have a heavy crush on her boss or be concerned that more things might have happened that I may not be aware?

2007-09-21 03:20:08 · 17 answers · asked by Rick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I didn't even know such a thing existed until I got married, but now it's something I think about often. Is this something you've ever dealt with? The idea that sometimes at work or in social situations you form a bond that is too strong with someone of the opposite sex? The challenge, I think, is when your spouse does not share the same interests. For instance, I'm a writer and my wife is not a huge fan of talking about the nuances of book publishing. So when another female wants to discuss this in detail, I have to be very careful about what parts of my heart I open up to her.

So my question is, have you ever had an emotional affair?
How did it end?

2007-09-21 03:19:36 · 13 answers · asked by longtuesday 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just don't know what to do anymore. My husband was so great at the beginning of our marriage and now he is pissed off at the world constantly. I try to talk to him but he just wants no confrontation of any problems and will just walk off or leave. This is just not with me.. it's people at his work too but I get the worst of it. I have tried praying, I have talked to counselors, we have gone to marriage counseling... nothing seems to work in the long run... I have come to the end of my rope.. This is what happened last night.. I made a nice Supper.. I told him that he needed to chew his food more slowly because he was chewing so fast (I said it in a Very nice way) he threw the plate on the floor, spit the food out and stormed out..This is just an example.. he is constantly throwing these kinds of tantrums.... What is wrong with him? What should I do? Any Advice would be Greatly Appreciated!!!!

2007-09-21 03:18:07 · 36 answers · asked by ckverzwyvelt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-21 03:15:55 · 5 answers · asked by alva_lisa 1 in Family

i have a crush on my best friendz boyfriend of 3years...

2007-09-21 03:15:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-21 03:09:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We are living together and expecting a baby at xmas and I really wanna complete our relationship by becoming engaged! Is it ok for a woman to ask a man to marry her? And if so, have you got any good ideas on how to do it? Also without sounding silly, will i need to get him a ring?!

2007-09-21 03:07:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I met a really nice guy about a year ago and we really clicked, i added him on msn and he asked for my mobile number.

i started to really like him and he use to text me literally everyday, nearly all day for months. he always wanted me to come in and visit him at work. every time we were at the same party he would always be near me and we were really close and hugging. at another party i got drunk but sobered up later on that night. he ended up holding my and and we slept together(just sleeping, no sex!) just spooning and touching.

ever since then he has hardly been talking to me but when we do talk its just like it was before anything even happened. hes a shy guy.. so im not sure whether this has anything to do with it.

it seemed like he was interested in me.. what do you think?

2007-09-21 03:07:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad has only a few days maybe weeks to live. I'm really struggling with it because I'm afraid I'm going to have guilt when he's gone. i love my dad and we have been close since he found out he was dying 6 months ago, but we've had a really hard past together. My brother hasn't spoken to him in 12 years and doesn't care that he's dying. He was a very distant man who was overly critical of his kids and who stayed relatively uninvoloved with us. I have forgiven him, I don't know if I can forgive myself for so many wasted years.

2007-09-21 03:06:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We've had trust issues in the past and she cheated on me about 6 years ago, but I forgave her and things had gotten better.

2007-09-21 03:05:36 · 59 answers · asked by Joseph T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 46 year old with 1 kid from previous gf who left me cos of drug/alcohol addiction. I have one son in London and another son in Japan, I am still married to my wife for her and my son but we are not in relatioship. The girl I fell in love with in Australia doesnt want me unless I divorce my wife. I think she deserves better than me. I dont have a job because of psychological problems. I am booked of sick on antidepressants. I go to meetings for drug and alcohol problems. I dont have money. I live in a closed hostel. I like heavy metal.

2007-09-21 03:04:34 · 22 answers · asked by other boy 2 in Singles & Dating

i know this guy who is a really nice respectable guy...he has a girlfriend and says he isnt the cheating kind...well we have become pretty close and i have developed feelings for him and i think he may like me too..of course i would never want him to cheat on his gf with me...but i was just wondering what guys usually think about in these situations...what do they do when this happens?
him and his gf dont seem to be extremely close, but then again i wouldnt know...he says she is smart but thats the only good thing he has ever said about her

2007-09-21 03:01:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

points for practicality of divorce in debate pls....

2007-09-21 03:00:57 · 5 answers · asked by hanjew d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He looks me dead in me eyes, not in a mean way, not in any way really, but when I speak to him he just keeps looking, but does not speak back. I don’t know him, I don’t know his name or what he does. I just see him in the office building that has a total of 14 floors sometimes.

2007-09-21 02:59:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce