I really need to know... How do I get a girl who has a bf? I have a class with this girl and I walk her out to her car everyday and we have a great connection. But today I asked what she was doin this weekend and she said somethin about what her bf wants to do.
Please I need some tips on how to get her.
Oh and don't even bother posting sumthin that says I should respect her and forget about it....I need some advice on how to actually get her
Thanks in advace
2007-09-21 04:46:09 · 14 answers · asked by da boi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her how serious she is about her BF. Tell her that you'd like to date her. Just be honest. Girls like that.
2007-09-21 04:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, I know you really like this girl... but let me put this in a different perspective for you. Sure you could possibly lure her away from her current boyfriend... but if you could do it... so could someone else. How would you feel if she left this guy for you... then some other guy came along and took her from you. You see... if she is the kind of girl you really want to be with, she wont leave her boyfriend until she is ready not because of someone else. I know you dont want to hear respect her... but in fact... you need to respect yourself hun. You deserve a girl that will give you her undevided attention... Now... if she were to break up with her current boyfriend, then she is anyones game and you can go for it. In the mean time instead of trying to get her away... work on your friendship so that you may have a chance in the future. Good luck.
2007-09-21 04:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by shadowsthathunt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that there are two factors to consider when someone is in a relationship:
1. How happy is she in the relationship? if she is really into the guy, it doesnt matter what you do, you aren't going to get her. Find out what her relationship status is, but if she is dropping the "boyfriend info" in casual conversation it is likely that she is happy with it. Otherwise, she would omit him completely, especially if she were interested in you.
2. If she is unhappy, you need to pique her interest in you. Find out what her hobbies are, try to get some talk time with her via phone, text, or emailing, make sure you talk to her as much as possible, and try getting her to hang out with you so she can see how fun you are and if you have chemistry. Unless she has a reason to leave him, chances are she wont.
2007-09-21 04:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kristi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way that you even have a chance is to just continue to hang out with her...walk her to her car, like you always do, if there is a connection she will feel it too, but she may be in love with her boyfriend. This is a case by case scenerio. Depends on how long she has been with her boyfriend, how into him she is. You may have a chance, but you may have no chance at all.
good luck.
2007-09-21 04:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by nykki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she said something about her bf, then she probably doesn't like you like that. You're still just friends. Keep it like that for now, and when she's done with this guy, you'll get your shot. better to wait, though, as she'll be more likely to keep you as a bf later on down the road.
2007-09-21 04:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Zephyr is the Shiznik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her who you are and let her make the choice. She's not a piece of meat that you can control. If she likes her current BF over you, too bad, it's her life too.
2007-09-21 04:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Casie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well id say
make ur there aftr she gets into an argument wid her bf
n then u cud both ***** abt him n then u cud tell her she needs sum1 whod really appreciate her(*girls love dat stuff)
make her feel more confident
make her realize dat her guy is treatin her like crap(even if hes not)
n if her guy gets pissd abt u hangin out wid her
say hes soo protective n dominatin n blah blah blah
gud luck man
but.....................................
if shes really in love wid her bf
forget abt it.....if u really like her ull let her be
"theres only 1 person out there for u"<<...dats not true
there r many ppl out there for u
u jus have t keep lookin
peace
2007-09-21 04:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Dlaid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, if you realy like her and she realy likes you she will leave the other guy for you, but dont try nothing with her, just respect her, cause if your just looking for one thing, yur looking in the wrong place, just cause u walk her, dont mean that hse is easy, she is a frindly person, so dont take things fast found out for real if you realy planning of beeing with her for a long time, you shuld never leave the person you love for the person you like cause the person you like will leave you for the person they love!!
2007-09-21 04:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by Beto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get closer to her like you know call her, and go to like dates "as friends" maybe she will dump her bf for you! ♥
2007-09-21 04:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When da boi gets to be da man he'll figure out how foolish his question really is.
2007-09-21 04:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Bob 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋