Well, there's this guy that I know but I'm not really friends with, we greet each other and exchange a few words, but that's about all the interaction we have. In my opinion he is cocky, but maybe he is just shy, I don't know. But he is changing the way he interacts with me, now he smiles at me when he sees me, and when we exchange words he keeps eye contact for long periods of time, he has this very intense look on his face and that makes me very nervous, I get weak in the knees when he does that and can't keep eye contact too long. From where he sits he looks in my direction and sits facing me, not only his face but his whole body. I feel he is interested in me, but I don't know what I'm supposed to do. What advice can you give me???
2007-09-21 08:29:21 · 26 answers · asked by miki360 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like he likes you... first you gotta decide if you like him... if you dont simply ignore him, hopefully he'll get the point!... if you like him next time he walks by and smiles at you say hi. introduce yourself and take it from there!... in my personal experience it always works better to just go with the flow! when you plan out what to say or do, it always gets messed up! half the time your standing there trying to remeber what you were going to say!!! hahaha! its happened to me a couple times! i was so embarresed!! just be yourself, and im sure he like you!! good luck!! <3
2007-09-21 08:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by lizzylou859 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Do your best to keep eye contact! If he doesn't, then you need to strike up a conversation with him. It sounds like he is interested in you, but he is probably nervous about making the first move - either because you work together or because he is scared of rejection. If you are interested, then make sure he knows it! After you have made that clear, leave the rest up to him! Good luck!
2007-09-21 08:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not get his number? Or ask him out. Show that your also interested but not too desperate. That's all you can do. Try! You be the first to make a move because you might be waiting a while for him!
good luck!
2007-09-21 08:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kawaii-Kitty! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him a few open ended questions "What courses are you taking?" "What do you do in your spare time?" etc, and that will engage him in conversation.
From there it is up to him to see you further or not. If he doesn't act upon your friendliness it is his loss and keep other opportunities open.
Trust me, in your life time you with meet others that will make your stomach upset, your knees weak and your heart skip a beat.
Good luck!!
2007-09-21 08:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy... Just keep talking to him and see what happens... you never know, he may just be checking you out to see if you're interested in him also... Only time will tell, i'm sure he knows you're interested in him as well. Good luck!
2007-09-21 08:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by N3N@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yay sounds exciting well if you like him and WANT something out of it like a better friendship, relationship, or JUST "one of those"... go for it! We are in the Millennium its OKAY for GIRLS to make the move. Just go up to him and say HI. If this is in school use that.. ask him what classes is he taking and go on from there.. go ahead girl do it.
2007-09-21 08:41:22 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well his body language definitely indicates his interest
i'm assuming this is at school cuz he you said he sits facing you so you should step up the conversation level based on the mutual experience of the class you're in together
Carpe diem!
2007-09-21 08:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is interested. Maybe you could ask him out for coffee or a drink. If not, just keep being friendly and maybe he'll ask you out.
2007-09-21 08:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by katigirl2007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes you. Make the first move. Just start with something like "what are you doing later" and if he seems open to answering that then ask if he would like to do something with you.
2007-09-21 08:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by bonnie02pink 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should talk 2 him for a while and let him know that you're interested without acually telling him and let him respond from there...
2007-09-21 08:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by gftweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋