every time i call his's cell he answers but i can hear a another woman with him. somtimes a woman answers but hangs up on me. what should i do?
2007-09-21 08:38:35 · 43 answers · asked by Kelsey J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is that why you are showing your bazookas to us on the Internet? Looking for a new bf?
2007-09-21 08:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Forget about him. Totally walk away. It sounds like he's being deceptive, and you don't deserve to live in a false reality. It's never easy to forget about someone, but trying to live life like nothing is wrong, when you know something is wrong can take a toll on you. It can make you feel paranoid, and insecure. Subjecting yourself to that kind of treatment can make you lose confidence in yourself, because it hurts to think that someone could lie to you and cheat on you as if you were worth nothing, and you and I both know you're awesome, passionate, beautiful, and worth so much more than that. It will take you like a day to find someone that values you for the absolutely incredible girl you are.
2007-09-21 08:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by blujello 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect yourself and be confident in your objective. Find out who the woman is. Ask open ened questions;"Who is she?" "Why does she hang up on me?", etc
Give him enough rope to hang himself. Ask him the questions that you need answers to. Don't rag on him, don't jump to conclusions, don't cut his answers off in mid sentence. Get his side of the story.
Then, once you have all of the facts act accordingly.
Maybe, covertly talk to his friends, co-workers, room mates, etc and share your suspisions with them.
Again, don't get angry or show your emotions without the facts 1st.
Personally, I don't give anyone 2nd chances when it comes to my love. If someone cheats on me I move on. I deserve better in my relationships!
Cheers & Good Luck!!
2007-09-21 08:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him who you are hearing in the back round. It might be some one he is working with. If he didn't want to answer the phone when you call he would check the caller id first and just let it go to voice mail.
2007-09-21 08:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sally Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried learning how to spell and using punctuation? He may prefer a woman who is intelligent or at least appears to be. In fact, his new woman could be an English teacher.
2007-09-24 04:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, first, go put some clothes on. Secondly, If he's hanging up the phone on you then it doesn't matter whether he's cheating or not...apparently he's decided that HE'S NOT your boyfriend any more. What part of "It doesn't matter whether you use an avatar with her clothes off or not, I'm done with you" don't you get?
2007-09-21 08:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your gut feeling tells you he's cheating,he more than likely is.not to sound cliche or anything but "drop that zero and get you a hero"if he can't appreciate you someone else will.just be sure not to let this guy's stupidity make you untrusting with your next man.leave him in your past.good luck and keep your head up!
2007-09-21 08:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by catlover30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go. Don't waste your time with a jerk. If that is really you in the picture...you won't have a very hard time finding another guy anyway. Just make sure he's genuine this time. Good luck!
2007-09-21 08:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is ... then he probably is ... and you should break up with him. If you take him back you are constantly going to be accusing him because you can forgive but you can never forget. It will only put an even bigger strain on your relationship and you will inevitable break up anyways. Plus if you tolerate him doing that once...he will do it again.
Best of Luck
2007-09-21 08:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Love Tha Skins! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHAT!!!! Have you confronted him about it? Wow... If i were you i'd tell him and that woman to F*cK off and move on... lifes too short to be wasting on someone that doesn't appreciate you. He is disrespectful for lying to you and even answering the phone while he's w/ someone else, let alone let someone else answer his phone. You can do better...
2007-09-21 08:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by N3N@ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a man, instead of an overgrown boy. Good luck babe,
askaman
2007-09-21 08:43:39 · answer #11 · answered by www.askaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋