He cheated last year and i took him back. Almost a year on our relationship and he wanted a break, he said to focus on football, but i knew it was to date someone else becuz he was talking about how we dont talk as much anymore. Then he didnt even act like he cared anymore. So i broke up with him. It hurts but i was the only one being hurt in the relationship. And ive been wondering if ill find someone else.
2007-09-21 11:25:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will definitely find someone else short_stuff! You were very smart to end something you're not happy with. If you can't work it out, don't every stay in a relationship where you're unhappy. When he realizes what he's missing and comes crawling back, take him back on YOUR terms! Or don't take him back at all!
2007-09-21 12:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Foxxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good god girlfriend, let him go!!! He obviously can't see the good qualities in you and if that's the case go out and find someone who wants to be with you..
Stop wasting your time, looks and talent on some no brainer loser.
If his focus is on Football and not on some chick...there may be a question of identity crisis there? Don't you think?
2007-09-21 18:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by anotherlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't help it when someone wants something but I think you made the right choice in the long run. Of course you're hurt, it was a long relationship but you will find someone else, I'm positive, he doesn't deserve you girl!
2007-09-21 18:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all. Never take back a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater. I know I took this cheater back, and it happened twice more. I broke up with him. Let this guy go. You deserve better. Sounds like you really like him, but believe me there are tons of other guys who would die to just go out with you.
2007-09-21 18:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by lpogue2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it was a good decision. why would you want to be with soemone who hurted you once? have u not hear the saying once a cheater always a cheater? i mean yeah people can change but it seems as if he isnt faithful. if he really does love u and after u giving him another chance, he wudnt want a break and wud do better. but it seems as if he didnt
2007-09-21 18:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will have somebody else in the long run. Yes it is Football season and the guys have to focus on there game.But he cheated so it is his big lost.. shake it off
2007-09-21 18:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by K_LOVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are well rid of this player, and now please give relationships a rest for a while. Be very glad that neither you nor he took the word "break" literally, or someone might be in the hospital. Or worse.
2007-09-21 18:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ShortStuff... if you would like for me to translate what he is trying to say ................I AM GOING FOR SOME PUSSY AND I WILL BE BACK WHEN I'M TIRED OF IT........so go ahead and meet someone else........HE IS....... and fall in love to because you've already took out the trash girl and that is the hardest thing for a woman to do.........Bob...
2007-09-21 18:32:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted a break, it sounds like he wanted to break up with you. It sounds like you'd be broken up either way. I'm sorry you're lonely.
2007-09-21 18:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are like buses. You miss one and another comes along soon.
2007-09-21 18:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋