He says every man will cheat sooner or later...?

Question

He tells me this as we were watching a reality show and I'm a bit disturbed by this statement. Should I watch out for his behavior or is this a bluff?

Answer 1

i think he is letting you know of what will happen in the future.... my bf tells me all the time that he could never cheat on me cause he would feel guilty about hurting me.... i would be cations with that one cause it doesn't seem like he would think twice about it

Answer 2

Girl I would be upset. I am a man and I have to say that all men do not cheat sooner or latter! He may have meant it as an off the cuff comment and did not mean that he would one day more than likely cheat on you. I would keep an eye on him after that nice little remark. I mean it's far better to be safe than sorry. I do not think he would cheat on you, you all have been together for quite a now, has he ever done anything that would cause you to think he was or would cheat on you? I would make sure you hold his comment in the back of your mind. That way if you ever do suspect him of it you can say that even he said all men will cheat sooner or latter. Unless you see something that makes you suspicious I would let it drop. All this will to is cause an argument if you try to "get at what he really meant" out of that comment. =)

Answer 3

There's no need to watch out for anything. He has made the statement (and I am one that believes people say what they really mean then try to say it was just a joke and such) which should be registering in your mind that if someone hasn't already come along to tempt him one will and it's in his nature to go with the attraction and his sexual impulses and at least attempt to be with her. It's comments and beliefs (often held by women too) that lump all men into one profile - dogs.

We're not. I was married for 12 years (she passed-not divorced lol) and though the temptations and offers where there I just couldn't ruin what I had with my wife. And cheating, whether the other person knows about it or not, always ruins what you have.

I suggest you have a serious talk with him and if he can not convince you that he would never cheat I'd start looking for the best way to end that relationship or at least get the idea that it's going to last out of your head.

Answer 4

That's not true, not every man will cheat. I think he is thinking about cheating and is trying to justify his bad behavior. Some people actually did a survey a few years ago and 50% of the men surveyed who were in a relationship with a girl they were in love with said that even if there was no chance AT ALL of getting caught, they still wouldn't cheat on the woman they loved. If the men were in a relationship with someone they were only casually interested in, though, then they were more likely to cheat because they didn't give a darn about the girl they were currently with. I know for a fact that my husband will never cheat, and I would never have married him if I wasn't positive of that! Oh, and my parents divorced because of a cheating spouse. It was my mom, NOT my dad!

Answer 5

Sounds like he may have already cheated. BTW that is not a true statement - I know a few couples that have been married a long time and are very happy together - and the guys would NEVER consider cheating on their wives because the really do have a good marriage, happy sex lives, and don't have an interest in being with any other woman.

Answer 6

I think you should watch out for his behavior, it is utter crap that every man will cheat sooner or later thats rubbish, I have been married for 14yrs and we do most things together, there are times when we are apart but we always know where each other is or doing, it is not that we keep tabs on each other we respect each other and with this honesty our relationship is fantastic.
I think he is being a big headed male and he needs to learn that if you truly love someone there is NO NEED TO CHEAT!
Im not saying that people don't fall in love with each other while with someone but that's when they need to be honest with the other partner.

Answer 7

I don't think every man cheats sooner or later and the fact that he thinks so is kinda disturbing. I would definately let him know that is not your belief and there is no excuse for that stupid of an statement. I'd keep an eye on that one!!!

Answer 8

I would have said, Oh really? Is that right?..Taken a mental note about that & watch his behavior. I don't believe all men will cheat sooner or later..There are some men who find pleasure in just pleasing one woman & don't constantly feel they have to satisfy another woman..

Answer 9

Well, actually, he is wrong. Every WOMAN will cheat sooner or later. It's only a question of time. 98% of the reason why men cheat is because they KNOW -- they damn well KNOW -- that sooner or later the woman will leave for a 1 1/2% better deal. Any man who trusts that his relationship is solid is a fool.

Answer 10

Sorry but I'd listen to the warning he has just given you ! I think he is wrong - some men cheat, some women cheat but if he thinks all men cheat then it sounds like he is including himself . I'd ask him straight why he said that and what does that say about him . Good luck

Answer 11

I would watch out! Really! Every man will cheat?! WTH?!! Sounds like a red flag to me. If you don't say something to him he may take it as permission to do so. Every man does not cheat. That is a load of cr*p!! Call him out and if he sticks by that statement, kick him out. You don't need that kind of threat/worry hanging over your head. JERK!