We have been together for two years now and things are great we use to fuss along time ago by me being scared to do anything. He use to watch porno's and do all that stuff I hated. Now he has me wanting it and he won't touch me. He is always too tired, doesn't feel like it or not in the mood. He use to want it every day now he can go weeks w/o wanting it and turing it down. He barely even lets me touch him b/c he doesn't want me starting ne thing. He has taken a big and sudden change. He claims he wants no one but me but why is he no longer attrative to me, it bothers me to think im not good enough for him especially since before we do nething like that together he has to have something else. It makes me made b/c i hear how people say he was all over his exes doing this to them that and the other. When he has done something for me 3 x's in 2 years then all of sudden won't have ne thing to do with me. He'd rather watch tv then look at me. Why is this please, HELP!!!??????
2007-09-21 09:58:17 · 7 answers · asked by trixieland 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's gettin it somewhere else
2007-09-21 10:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by girlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he's attracted to you. He'll say yes, but watch his reaction. He might like the idea of a girlfriend but isn't comfortable getting physical with you. If sex is important to you (I'm assuming it's been 2 weeks since you've done the deed) and it's now suddenly gone then there has to be a reason he's stopped. If it goes on like this it must be a bigger issue then just not feeling like it. Ask him if there's anything you can do to get him excited about sex (anything within your comfort zone, of course).
2016-05-20 03:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by vida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be cheating on you. so my opinion is go to his face and ask him..... Are you having an affair with some one else???? if he says "i wont dignify that question with an answer" hes probally getting it some where else hun... im sry
2007-09-21 10:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jhary G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's participating in some extracurricular activity! Just ask him, what's up?
2007-09-21 10:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Pinyon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know- is he secretly gay or cheating? Or depressed or not into you that way anymore?
2007-09-21 10:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's turning down sex? often? sounds like he is getting it elsewhere. :(
2007-09-21 10:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he got it from another chick
thats all
2007-09-21 10:08:08 · answer #7 · answered by blockzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋