Ladies how do you feel about your man going to Hooters with out you? They only go to look right?

Question

He is my fiance'. Do you think it's right? It makes me feel like I'm less of a woman.

Answer 1

I have no problem with my man going to Hooters, with or without me. If this is all it takes to make you feel "less of a woman", you have some serious issues. Grow up.

Answer 2

Me and my husband went to a local Hooters on our honeymoon in Florida. It was fun, he actually stared at the football game more than he did the girls, but it is just for fun.

He also went to Hooters the night before his bachelor party and got a beer mug with all the girls signatures, a free calendar, etc...if I understand this can happen anytime if you ask.

Unless you are worried your fiance will stray from you I would not worry about a thing. When you go to a strip club or see a cute guy walking down the street do you think you will stray from him? Whatever your answer is I am sure your fiance feels the same way, and I would not worry.

Let him have fun!

Answer 3

I think any woman who is worried about their man going to Hooters without them has some serious insecurity issues. What is the big deal? Have you seen what some women wear out these days? Hooters girls are tame compared to some of the, ahem, ladies, you see in public these days. It's not like they can watch them strip there or anything. If you feel like less of a woman, that's something you have to deal with. It has nothing to do with him going to Hooters. That's all you and your insecurity. Seriously - there are so many more important things to worry about in a relationship. If this is the worst you've got it, consider yourself lucky.

Answer 4

Darlin' I've been to Hooters - and there isn't much there. The young waitresses just tie their shirts in such a manner as to bare their tummies and make their chests more obvious. Amazingly enough, after a few minutes, every guy wonders what the fuss is about and "Is that all there is?" To top it off, the service and the food - it is a restaurant, after all - leave a lot to be desired - at least in the three different Hooters I visited. So much so that all three are now permanently closed.

Answer 5

They're Hooter waitresses ... that's it ... it's there job to walk around and look cute. They don't sleep with their customers ( well most of them .. lol ) it's a job & they have rules. If you're that insecure with yourself ... then it's time to do something about it ... I enjoy Hooter's just as much as my man - we check out the ladies together and laugh about it ... life is too short to be worried about some stranger ... now if he's a regular then you have every right to wonder ... but a few times with the buddies isn't crap in my book ... better than a strip club ... good luck ... !

Answer 6

It would be fine with me, I trust my man and there are goodlooking women all over the place, not just at Hooters.

Then again, my husband always invites me to go along with him if he goes somewhere like that because he knows I'm not insecure, and we have so much fun together.

Answer 7

My husband goes quite a bit to Hooters, with friends and MY dad. It doesn't bother me in the slightest, but I do know people that it does bother. I don't understand the problem myself, the girls there might be wearing skimpy clothing, but everything is covered up. I've gone with them a couple times, and talked to the waitresses, and Everyone of them are super nice. Maybe you should go with him once or twice and see for your self that it's not that bad of a place. The girls are just working to pay their bills.

Answer 8

I wouldnt be too worried about hooters...its more of a restaurant then anything. the girls dont take their clothes off and to be honest...most arent anything worth looking at. me and some of my girl friends go for dinner sometimes becuase the food is good. if he was heading out to a strip club then you may have reason to be a little worried.

Answer 9

What your fiance did is completely disrespectful. Some people might even call it adultery.

The food at Hooters tastes like food from any other resturaunt, so why do men go there in particular? Because they want to look at sl*ty women.

Personally, I think doing something like that is wrong in all circumstances, whether your single or not single. But for a man to visit Hooters when he's engaged to a woman - that's just blatant adultery and complete disrespect.

You should tell your fiance how you feel about this. He should understand.

Answer 10

Well all women have breasts and Hooters exploits that. If it really bothers you then talk to him about how it makes you feel. Don't FORBID HIM to go...tell him how it makes you feel. If he doesn't understand change the situation to how would he feel if YOU went to a club that had georgous hunky men in G-Strings parading around. I would be willing to bet that he would have a problem with that. Just point out it is the same thing.

Answer 11

I have similar problems w/my hubby....even though he knows the waitresses are supposed to talk and flirt for good tips and business, he still goes and I think it's because of the attention...yes he is only looking, but sometimes it pisses me off that he's just so blatant about it.

As if the attention I give him isn't enough. Anyway, I suppose it's only fair to say that I feel good when I get checked out and given the 'once over'. Men like to look and women like to be admired, so as long as we can keep it in perspective, we will be OK.