In the mornings I am sooo grouchy! I just totally turn into a raving ^&tch. I hate being mean to my boyfriend. He is a wonderful man and I can't help but to take my morning grouchyness out on him. Any suggestions on how to get the morning grouchy's away?
2007-09-21 09:30:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, the good thing about this situation is that you're acknowleding that you have an attitude in the morning. So try to be concious of that when you feel yourself start to snap at him. Are you getting enough sleep? If not, try to go to bed earlier. Even the smallest things, like more comfy nightclothes or a new pillow can help. Even what you eat before you go to bed may determine how you feel in the morning. Maybe try to wake up a little earlier than he, and treat yourself to a cup of coffee or tea and sit on the porch or something peaceful. Hope this helps.
2007-09-21 09:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one in the morning talks to me in my family because I am a grouch and don't like to be bothered until I wake up and hang out for a while.
I would say to your boyfriend that you are sorry, you are trying to work on it...and maybe a solution would be to let you have your first cup of coffee without being bothered, give you time to wake up and greet the day.
Some people just take a while to get acclamated to being awake in the mornings. I am a really deep sleeper and so it takes me a while not to be bitchy when people start in on me first thing in the morning, and it could be as little as asking me if I want milk for my coffee or not. Really all I need is about 20 minutes of silence in the morning, and I am good to go.
2007-09-21 16:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by SisterSue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you aren't getting enough sleep. That often makes me grouchy in the morning. Or maybe you should start eating a good breakfast...you know, start your day off right. If all else fails, just talk to him about it. Let him know you're sorry you take it out on him and maybe you guys should limit the amount of time you hang out in the morning.
2007-09-21 16:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get up an hour before anyone else, have a couple of cups of coffee, a couple of cigs, check my email and watch a bit of news. That way by the time everyone else gets up, I resemble a human being! Cause sweetie, raving B**** doesn't come close to descibing me in the morning!
2007-09-21 16:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, my moods were caused by my relationship but to tell you the truth , i became bipolar after dealing with my man . Now i break stuff (it started with the "grouchiness' but at night after work ).the reason (sane reason) is because you want to see how far you can push it with him.its very possible that he can take it and never get mad or you will soon see that you have to stop if he is going to start acting up. Try St.Johns wart drops.Plus if you smoke (u know what ) you will have mood swings in the morning.
2007-09-21 16:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by lexy 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, try going to bed earlier, get some coffee and avoid each other until after your shower. I am a b***** in the morning too so I can relate.
2007-09-21 16:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to go to bed earlier at night and wake up before he does get out of your grouchy mood and then go wake him up for a change
2007-09-21 16:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if HE was the one like that? It could be something chemical you know. I'd see a doctor. It's not far-fetched to think medication might help.
2007-09-21 16:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try lavender drops on your pillow and duvet - lavender is a calming/healing essential oil. Overnight you will inhale the aroma and in the morning you will feel loving and kind. Truthfully it works for me. x
2007-09-21 16:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by fluffyhead24 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try jumping his bones. A little exercises, release some tension and anxiety.
2007-09-21 16:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋