A couple of nights ago, me and my girl best friend (not girlfriend), went out like any other night as friends with some of our other friends (we have been friends with each other for 7 years – both 19). Anyway, we went to a night club like any other nights that we would go out with friends, but we ended up in bed together the next morning (she lost her virginity to me now). She just got out of a relationship four days ago too. Would it be the wrong time for me to ask her if we could be gf and bf?
2007-09-21 02:01:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i actually think this is really romantic!!
i dont know if its too soon, it depends on what signals shes sending out, if she lost her virginity to u she may expect u to ask her out but then again shes just come out of a relationship
2007-09-21 02:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just take your time and hang out and see where it goes. It would be good to talk things out and find out where she stands with her feelings. You don't want to be a rebound for someone. Ask her if she would like things to become more between the two of you. The best way to find things out is to communicate.
2007-09-21 09:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by just2letuknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont be am confuse, did u ple not realise ur self on bed, meaning both of u had gotten this feelings b4 then.
wel, kool, but dont ask her out or tell her about ur feelings, jus be kool, invite her out, be closed more than usuall and ie be showing her love, know what i mean........... y do i say, dont ask her, bc she might feel that u pitty her bc she has jus got out of a relationship.
and finally u realised that it became natural. ok
wish u luck
2007-09-21 09:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by R.M.zoneziwoh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it can be a perfect time and also a bad time
perfect time- when she responded that she wants you to be his boyfriend then BINGO!
bad time- when she told that no, she doesn't want you to be her boyfriend
my reminder to you is that "you have to accept whatever her answer will be"
2007-09-21 09:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsiren_candygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that could be what she wants or she coulda just wanted to sleep with u. maybe u should wait... if things are weird bring it up.
2007-09-21 09:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats what you want, but dont think just because you had sex that you have to hook up
2007-09-21 09:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋