she said " u little *****. get off that computer now, and go to your room" im kinda shocked at wat she said but she had no idea that ive looked at stuff on the internet. she took my computer privileges, and house and cell phone from me. that was almost 3 weeks ago...she's still doin it tho.. she put a pass. on our computer and everything. i only get on when shes lets me, and its only for 25 min. I sneak on when i can. Shes not even home now. DO YOU THINK SHE OVERREACTED??? i mean teen guys are pretty much the main culprits for lookin at porn or playin w/ themselves and gettin caught. My boyfriends mom would rather him look at porn then out doing it w/ a gurl. My mom and i already had a kinda strained relationship. but now its like hardly there. she probably thinks im a pervert. ADVICE???
2007-09-21 02:24:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Men look at porn in large numbers and many women do to. Those sites require you to be 18 for a reason and it sounds like you are not 18.
It is also normal for teens to be curious about it too. However, when you are under 18 you are breaking the law and since your mom is resonsible for you, you could inadvertently get her in trouble. The bottom line is that she is in charge and it is reasonable for her to decide she doesn't want you to look at porn. Her house her rules and she seems to be trying to guide you to not look at it. My advice is to use the internet for other fun and legal things and wait until you are of age to decide about looking at this.
2007-09-21 03:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by rumbler_12 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You mom seems to be pretty smart. I am glad she caught you. You don't have the right to be looking at porn in her house. Weather you are 18 + or not. it is her roof, her rules. You apparently can't be trusted since you sneak on the computer when she is not there. My daughters would not even be allowed on the computer after that. Not even for 25 mins. Be grateful for that and stop being a rebelis little brat. You need to respect your mom. I am sure you have done more than this to hurt your mom. You don't have alot of respect for her and you should. Work on your relationship with your mom. You won't get another one. Once she is out of your life you will regret it. DO you enjoy hurting your mom? Get off the computer your not suppose to be on it.
2007-09-21 02:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah parents overreact wayyy too much over internet porn, or porn in general. I got caught TWICE, and I never got in more trouble over that than any other thing I've done in my entire life.
I'm completely normal btw lol. And yeah I agree, you could be out doing it in real life as a teen, what's worse? In the long run porn is, but you won't get anyone pregnant or contract an STD from a computer...not yet at least.
2007-09-21 02:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Warrior-Scholar 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I can understand your mom's shock. Especially since you are a girl. With all the craziness on the Internet I bet she was scared. Trust me when you have kids you'll understand better. She is probably thinking if you are watching that what are you doing.
It would have been nice if she had reached out to you after the occurrence. Anyway see if you can reach out to her. I think growing up it is nice to have a good relationship with your mom. She can teach you a lot about life and relationships so you don't take a painful route. Avoiding and pretending this away is not the best.
2007-09-21 02:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by 007 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with watching porn, however if you are still living under your mom's roof. you have to obey her. I dont think she was overreacting, i just think she was scared and didn't know how to react at all. parents grew up in a whole different era, stuff that is normal now was considered completly sinful when they were your age.
Like i said, you have to respect your mom as long as she provides you with a home.
2007-09-21 02:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Tam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
while my infants are 12 they'l comprehend all approximately that form of stuff. in case you get in difficulty then i think that's what you get for breaking the "unstated rule." I actual does no longer punish my infants for being inquisitive approximately intercourse...... till I asked them to no longer go onto there -- then they had be in deap SHHHTUFF. nicely, stable luck -- it is too previous via lie -- if it replaced right into a pop-up, you will possibly have stated that perfect away -- yet because of the fact you knew you have been breaking a rule, you remained silent. i think you will possibly greater proper get waiting for a woopin. ---- sorry guy
2016-10-09 14:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for her for taking a strong response. We need more parents like this.
I do not think shes over reacting. The sites are rated adult for a reason.
I think you need to work on your relationship with you mom now. Show her she can trust you again and then ask for your privilages back.
2007-09-21 02:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by Twigward 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You can have clear talk with your mom and explain how that happened and also clarify what are the doubts you have regarding any particular issue. It is the right time for the parents also should realize that the children are growing and it is their duty to explain things (-whatever doubt you have-) to their children. Yours VRVRAO
2007-09-21 02:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're a smart kid; you can figure out how to get around her blocks on the 'puter. Ya wicked thang... };^)
Yeah, she over-reacted. Most parents do. All you can really do at this point is lay low and let the storm pass - as it will.
2007-09-21 02:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Asks her if she prefers you to look at porn on line, or if she wants you to go do the porn in real life. Let her know what you think. This doesn't mean that if she still refuses to see your point, you'll go out and have sex or what not, ultimately thats your decision, but that might put things in perspective for her.
2007-09-21 02:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by j-o-v 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋