i have been with my boyfriend for two months now and i new him every since i was 5 and now two months in the relationship he was asking me to have sex with and i was like i am not ready and he was like when r u going to be ready and i was like when the time is right and then he was like oh iight. ya know before i got with him he use to fool around with alot of gurls ya know and he has never been with a virgin and so he was like aint nobody a virgin n-e more get with tthe 21st century and i was like i am just not ready and so he was like since i have been after u fa a long time and i luv u so much to never hurt u i will wait. but the problem is that he has a lot of female friends and idk if i like that ya know. so what should i do?
2007-09-21 01:43:40 · 14 answers · asked by LIL_DRUMMERGURL_08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once your virginity is gone you cant get it back....save it for your husband....if your bf cant wait ditch him
2007-09-21 01:49:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier. It should be whenever you are ready - whenever that it - and not before. There's plenty of virgins out there - besides, you only have one to lose, so don't waste it!
It sounds like he fools around quite a bit (and may be getting something on the side - it sounds likely, anyway.) Either way, female friends shouldn't be the problem. If you're worried about them, then it would seem that you don't completely trust him - meaning that he's probably not the one for you.
You go, girl! Good luck!
PS: And when you do, don't forget protection. I realise it's not as comfortable for your first time, but it only takes that one time to catch an STD - and there is still no cure for many of them. Pregnancy is also still a problem, but a child only has to be looked after for 18 years or so - STDs are for life.
2007-09-21 09:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand by your values don't give them up for someone like that who only wants to get into your pants--lame lines someone like that will say anything to get what they want will make you feel so good then it's wham bam thank you mamme I know someone who's almost 20 and still a virgin it's nothing to be ashamed of in fact hold your head up higher hold on to those standards it has to be when you are ready and only then if that's all he's after break it off you deserve so much better than that yeah virgins are hard to come by these days, as in my day as well, but still they are out there you look at the world in a different way you want to be loved not just used--please don't give in to this or any other guy good luck in all you do
2007-09-21 08:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by sassysandyinmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, then you are not ready. WAIT. If he doesn't like it, then too bad. It's not his virginity. HE'S not the one that can get pregnant. He's not the one that has to deal with the psychology of this matter. Wait. You will be glad you did, and if he cannot accept this, then he is a lousy boyfriend and you'll be better without him. A real man will respect your feelings. For that matter, a real man wouldn't be hanging out with a lot of other girls. You may need to re-evaluate this relationship and follow your heart. Good luck!
2007-09-21 08:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait i didnt wait and i had a baby 3 months in. If you arent ready he should respect that. If you guys are going out he needs to let go of his female friends especially the ones you dont know or those he has had sexual contact with. Once you decide you are ready since it is your first time and he has had multiple partners ask him to get an STD test just in case. Good Luck.
2007-09-21 08:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by littlemissmay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the most important person in your life now and for all your time is you. Always do for you first. Take care of you and do for you so you can be of some good to others.
If you are not ready then so be it. When you are then the time will be the right time. Do not let anyone make you compromise yourself just for a few minutes of pleasure.
2007-09-21 09:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should totally forget about him he is NOT worth it and somebody who sounds like that is not a nice person dont do ANYTHING your not ready for no matter what even if your friends say its cool and a guy presures you forget about it if your not ready your not ready and the only thing this guy wants from you is sex once you give it to him you will lose him he will definetly ditch you hes just anothere immature boy and dont let his charms work on you DONT BE A FOOL!!
2007-09-21 08:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by *@ng3l* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is best to Waite until you are married but now day that is just about not going to happen so don't you ever let anyone pressure you in to having sex if you are not ready. sex should be a wonder full experience with your sole mate
2007-09-21 08:53:19 · answer #8 · answered by cj10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, please don't give in. He sounds like a user since he's been with a lot of other girls. Guys like that will say they love you or whatever it takes to get you to have sex with them. Wait for Mr. Right girl. When he comes along, he won't try to pressure you. He will love and respect you and be willing to wait. Giving your HUSBAND your virginity is the greatest gift you can EVER give him.
2007-09-21 08:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by kbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Dump him he's not worthed it. No serious. He knew you since he was 5 and he don't understand what kinda person you are? Its wise of you to hold on to your morals. It's hard to find gals like you now a days. I seriously hope you will meet a guy who find this beautiful of you.
2007-09-21 09:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Boogyman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your virginity is the most important thing that you have. Once you lose it, you can NEVER regain it!
If he is pressuring you, time to find someone else who will honor your value systems!
2007-09-21 08:51:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋