Family & Relationships - 21 September 2007

I know this is a strange question to be asking complete strangers but Im going to go for it.Ive been dating my boyfriend for only a few months. See we were friends for a month and then we decided to do the relationship deal, I relationship is wonderful and very loving, Its just since a few weeks after I met him I knew I wanted to marry him. And that hasnt changed.But for him he says he loves me and wants to marry me but he just isnt ready yet.I thought if you loved someone as much as he says he does then you would want to be married to them.And he is a marine and will deploy in March.And I moved and we are three hours apart.I just want to be with him all the time so by marrying him we will live together. He just doesnt see it my way, he says he just isnt ready. What should I think , or do? Should i say you have to marry me or you have to go? No I dont think thats right.But Im so anxious and just want to jump into it. What do you all think?

2007-09-21 16:13:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy in AA who is really serious about his recovery and very involved. Im 5 years sober now, and he's sober too. We are both 28 years old and met about 3 times. He told me about some event that was happening and asked if I wanted to go, so he gave a flyer with directions on it. Than he gave me his phone number and said to call him if I needed more details on the event. I missed it , called him anyway about 2 weeks later. I left a message and he called me back. We were talking ofr awhile about a very unhealthy relationship I am in and he said that I dont deserve being with someone like that. So, I went on vacation and came back. He called me twice tonight on my cell, which I couldnt get to at the time due to working, etc. I called him back and he asked how my vacation went. We talked and laughed on the phone for about an hour. He laughs at every joke I have and said I was too cute. I cant tell if hes likes me more then a friend...he also seems a little shy, help

2007-09-21 16:10:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anabelle26 1 in Singles & Dating

I have come to the conclusion my boyfriend is a big mouth and regergitates everything I tell him to the people in his family.
I told him some really private things and he told his daughter. I was totally humilitated because I didnt expect him to repeat them. I felt betrayed and hurt. He thinks its no big deal.
I just told him something 3 weeks ago and found out tonite he repeated it to his ex wife.
I think I should just not tell him anything in order not to risk his big mouth. Why does he do this?
I had a small surgery this afternoon and I have not told him because he will repeat it and everyone in his family will know the details and add there 2 cents. I just want my privacy back and I feel like he is a big mouth. What do you say to someone like this?

2007-09-21 16:09:12 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-21 16:07:34 · 21 answers · asked by JudasHero 5 in Singles & Dating

Every time i ask her for a kiss she said latter and she does not give me a kiss.

2007-09-21 16:05:43 · 16 answers · asked by king k 2 in Singles & Dating

We have always been open about everything. We always made sure we went out one night a week, (time to ourselves). Took many vacations. We both work hard, and my husband and his Father own a well-known Construction company. Money isn't really the factor. Does anyone ever have enough? My husband got involved with drugs about 8 years ago,(his Father has always got him out of everything). He was put on probation, and then it was revoked. He had to do a 120 treatment program. Since then he doesn't want to work, be with his family, (he was always a family man), he wants sex when he wants it. Never like it use to be. I never thought that would be a problem in our marriage. I do all the maintance on our cars, as far as taking them to a mechanic, work all the time for a large pharmaciticual co., and he chooses to hand around his dad's farm house. I feel like my life is wasting away. I've been approached by a few men. Never thought about cheating either. Now I don't no?

2007-09-21 16:05:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I WanT 2 Write Something nice 2 my girl and i need it 2 be about love and here it isz....BaBii as Life Goes On I Begin 2 Realize that every passing DaY im Falling More And More in Love With You Babii I Love You

2007-09-21 16:03:52 · 2 answers · asked by B Gunnz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we met online,dated two month . then she got pergnant. she though marriage was the only way it would work, so i did cause i was trying to do the right thing. everthing went well for a few month after that we argued alot . we got in a big fight now we are going through a divorce. should we have tryed to work it out or are we doing the right thing?

2007-09-21 16:02:54 · 7 answers · asked by michaelpz76 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok he got me that but it was really ugly and big and then 3 sets of ear rings they were nice but the ring sucked so what do i do and i am 5'3 and he is way to short and i dont like saying ily and i met another boi but i dont know how to say it ....any ideas besides "its over"

2007-09-21 15:59:48 · 14 answers · asked by kimberly p 1 in Singles & Dating

i have the chance to see mine after 14 years tomorrow only thing is i am married

2007-09-21 15:55:17 · 18 answers · asked by lifeiscrazy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

etc? That would be helpful thanks!

2007-09-21 15:53:40 · 2 answers · asked by Mrs! 2 in Weddings

So my grandma lives in my home town of San Antonio this is her 4th stroke in the past 2 years and my gramps cant take care of her, I have already been to school and am able to care of her so I will be moving down next week. My aunt and my dad said there is some program in the state that would pay me to take care of her anyone else heard of this and can offer more info???

2007-09-21 15:51:47 · 4 answers · asked by krystalthompson84 1 in Family

if you had the chance after years and years married or not married single or not single would you want to see them and why???

2007-09-21 15:49:24 · 20 answers · asked by lifeiscrazy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-21 15:48:14 · 16 answers · asked by misscantbetold 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when he says you can contact old freinds?

2007-09-21 15:47:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

wat about the name amy

2007-09-21 15:44:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok so over the summer me and this one girl got into a fight, then she started telling all of my friends that i was talking bad about them to her [which i wasnt] but they all believed her for some reason [i think they were braiwashed lol] but ok so they were all yelling at me over the summer and right now i have like 4 or 5 friends and i used to have like 20 close ones!

and school started like 4 weeks ago, and all of a sudden there talking to me [well not really 'talking' more like b****ing me out] and i cant help but to talk back.

how can i stop?

oh and one girl has to buy me a new pair of shoes because she let her dog eat them! =[

2007-09-21 15:39:35 · 5 answers · asked by star2012angel 2 in Friends

ok,im really concerned about my mom & dad.they've been divoreced a while now.but my dad has been giving us food.food we dont really eat.its nice he's doing this,but its bothering my mom.this has happened a while now.she doesnt like to waste food,so she told my dad not to give anymore.if he does,she'll have to give him a restraning order.

i understand that she hates him,because of what my dad did to her long ago.but idk what to do.my dad sort of has a temper,so im scared he might try to yell at her.=/
what should i do?
im trying really hard to stay out of it...but i just cant.

2007-09-21 15:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay my cousin got married already but they had their wedding in jamaica. and we are having the party tomoro. okay i want to know how you would dress. i am freaking out! because all i have in my closet is jeans and tshirts =. although i am willing to but pants

2007-09-21 15:37:26 · 15 answers · asked by :D 4 in Weddings

When you know the other person doesn't love you anymore, why do you stay in that relationship? Is it because you think you can win them over? I think once the love is gone, it's gone. They might still have feelings for you based on all the shared history, but I really think the *love* is gone for good.

2007-09-21 15:36:51 · 11 answers · asked by Fluffster1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

OKAY SO I GOT THIS SISTER IN LAW.. SHE IS SOMETHING ELSE. ONE MINUTE SHE COOL WITH ME AND THE NEXT SHE WANNA ACT ALL FUNNY AND GET ATTITUDES. IF SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN ANY OTHER HOE I WOULD HAVE BEEN KNOCKED HER *** OUT BUT THATS MY HUSBAND BABY SISTER. I GOT LOVE FOR HER. SHE CONSTANTLY TAKING MY KINDNESS FOR WEAKNESS. HER AND HER BROTHER COULD COME TO ME FOR ANYTHING. IF I HAD IT I WOULDNT HESITATE. EXCEPT MY CAMCORDER. SO TODAY SHE ******* CROSSED THE LINE AND SHE MAKE ME WANNA SHOW HER *** WHATS UP. SHE THINK SHE ALL GANGSTA AND **** BUT SHE IS JUST A DAMN WANNABE AND I LAUGH AT HER ***. SHE CALLED ME A *****. HER EXACT WORDS WERE ***** DONT TRY TO ACT ALL HARD CUZ U AINT... LOL... SHE TEXTED ME COULDNT EVEN SAY IT TO MY FACE. FUNNY THING I LIVE WITH HER. I DONT KNOW. MY HUSBAND IS IN IRAQ AND HE SAID IF IT CAME DOWN TO IT TO FIGHT HER ***. BUT I CANT. IF I FOUGHT HER MY MOTHER IN LAW AND MY FATHER IN LAW WOULD NEVER FORGIVE ME. NEWAYS I WENT TO THE MOVIES TODAY TO GET AWAY FROM THE DRAMA AT THE HOUSE AND WHEN I CAME HOME THEY WERENT HERE AND THEY LOCKED ME OUT!! HAHA I STILL GOT IN... MY IN LAWS R IN WA DOING WORK. SHE IS 17 THINKING SHE GROWN. I COUD SHUT HER UP SO QUICK BUT THATS THE OLD NITA. I CHANGED FOR MY BABY. HE ONLY 6 MONTHS BUT I STILL WANNA DO RIGHT BY HIM. I DONT FEEL LIKE I NEED TO PROVE MYSELF TO NO ONE BUT I FEEL LIKE IF SHE KEEP DISRESPECTING ME IMMA HAVE TO BUSS HER DAMN LIP. YOU KNOW THE SCARY BITCHES.. THE ONES THAT TALK **** BUT DONT WALK IT. WELL MY FRIENDS GIVE ME ADVICE BECAUSE I AM SO LOST WITH HER. FUNNY THING IS I LOVE HER LIKE SHE IS MY OWN SISTER AND SHE DONT EVEN KNOW IT, I THINK SHE FEELS LIKE I AM TAKING HER PLACE WITH HER PARENTS AND I WOULD NEVER DO THAT!!

2007-09-21 15:36:37 · 5 answers · asked by Sunita W 2 in Family

Anything local near the 17724 area??

2007-09-21 15:33:43 · 3 answers · asked by cherriwaves 3 in Weddings

It was a muntual agreed upon breackup and we made it as peaceful as can be. She just sold a house and says that she needs to pay other bills with it. She is going to give me $200 tomorrow and $100 a month and then said she will have it paid off bt February. What do you think of this?

2007-09-21 15:32:16 · 28 answers · asked by tony r 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Yes If you had a near death experience Would you share it Because we would learn so much

2007-09-21 15:31:44 · 9 answers · asked by lala 7 in Friends

I like my boyfriend alot! He is so cute, funny, sensitive, and etc. Anyway, how should I seek up on him to give him a KISS!!! I tried but I didnt have good aim!!!

2007-09-21 15:31:24 · 1 answers · asked by GummieBear 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i cant get the frekin clothes i like what the hell do i do!

2007-09-21 15:30:46 · 13 answers · asked by christian p 1 in Friends

ok i am married with two kids and i love my hubby but not in love and he is a good dad and tries to provide for us but here it goes i have never stopped loving my first love and i found him back in march on the computer and we have talked on here since well he found out his wife was cheating and just up and left tonight and his family is from the area and he wants to see me after 14 1/2 years and i want to see him so do i or stay away do i trust myslef or not and by the way i am fat fat fat now and that bothers me so what to do please dont be to hard on me

2007-09-21 15:29:06 · 19 answers · asked by lifeiscrazy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Your stories may be very different then mine, but i just feel like sharing.
I wanted to end up with the guy who would tell all his friends he liked me and would want to be around me. I always thought i'd keep myself unavailable until i found a good bf or atleast a good lover and that didn't really happen. All my friends were getting peiced to guys they thought were guys they'd see themselves with; dating and such. I held back for a year, but everyone was so into it so i just let my guard down. It's not like i mad myslef available to everyone it was just one guy. I thought my friend's were doing fine and i was lacking some love in my life and i decided the long wait should be over. I opened my eyes one morrning and realized i got drunk and slept with somone i barely knew. I honestly didn't completely regret it because he does have sort of a good reputation for being the nice guy, but i feel so unfaithful to my life plans. Am i a mess?

2007-09-21 15:28:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend watches porn. Big deal right? Well for some reason it really bothers me. For a few reasons...
1. today I got into my car and noticed on the passengers seat he had left things he took out of his pocket, like his bank receipt, a receipt from getting gas and a "porn" picture he had printed at work.
2. He says we don't have sex much because he only likes sex when he's in the "want to rip off your clothes mood" and that his sex drive has just gone down. But I don't understand then- why he looks at porn almost every day & gets off(or at least it seems that way).
Does he have a problem? Or do I have the problem? I've never had a serious relationship where the guy was into a lot of porn once we got together (at least not that i was aware of- i know they looked at it sometimes.. just not ALL the time)
And it's not that he's downloading tons of porn movies to watch- he just gets pictures- but his 'hidden' folder on his pc on porn pictures has like 1100 in it.

2007-09-21 15:28:18 · 16 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok...next weekend is the homecoming for the town that i moved away from a couple months ago. my old girlfriend that thinks i still like her even though i don't (she doesn't know) wants me to go to the dance with her, but i really don't want to considering i don't have those type of feelings for her anymore. i know that if i went, all my old friends would crowd around me and i wouldnt get to be with her at all. i'm always looking forward to going back to see my friends, but this time im not so sure. i don't want to hurt anybodys feelings and i dont want to be sorry about my decision. as the questions says, i need some serious help. what should i do?

2007-09-21 15:27:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships