i have the chance to see mine after 14 years tomorrow only thing is i am married
2007-09-21 15:55:17 · 18 answers · asked by lifeiscrazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I saw mine after 10 yrs exact & in TV! lol I couldn't believe my eyes and all my heart did was pound faster by the minute. And guess what? I was still married but not no more! And yes, he was the reason for it. Read my last 2nd Q? I posted about this.
2007-09-21 16:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by gmg2 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes I do still think of my first love, and that is something all of us women do, that is because we were so young and our hormones were are their peek and we were just living in lala land, but you need to understand that this is only a fantasy, you are looking for that high that we once had and let me tell you, you wont find it, if anything you are gonna ruin that sweet memory you have carried with you for 14 years, and its because you and this guy are now adults, he is no longer the guy he once was. Stop trying to live in the past, you are now a married person, this is wrong! what on earth would your wife or husband think? This is very disrespectful and can cause lots of pain to your spouse, not a good idea, Id rethink this if I were you! Shame on You!
2007-09-21 23:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by penelope 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I knew there was a reason behind these questions of yours.
If you do go see him take your husband with you and be open , honest and trustworthy , if your considering going alone then you deserve tha pain thats coming god dont be so silly stay away from the ex if you arent willing to take your husband with you to show your in love with your husband and have NO interest in rekindling an old spark , try to remember their fault's , why did you break up , what caused it.
Dont become a cheater if your marriage has hit a rough spot then find a way to relight that spark.
2007-09-21 23:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do, but I wish I didn't. My first love and I met up after ten years of not seeing each other, and we ended up getting married. The marriage fell apart, but we have 2 children together, so now we must deal with each other, and that is very painful because we both still love each other, but he could not give me the commitment I expected from a husband.
2007-09-21 23:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by aquarius_tattoo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Better run the other way fast as you can. Adultery is a sin that has dire consequences. You have free will to commit this evil sin, but you can not choose the consequences and you will pay them if you do this dirty deed. Your children and your husband will pay too with the hurt you will be putting on them. Your first love is a farce and it will only bring you misery in the long run.
2007-09-21 23:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I still think of mine... He was an amazing guy, we were just too young and immature to appreciate things.
My hubby reminds me of my 1st love in some of the things he says, his work ethic, I think it's something ya always remember.
Cant go back there, and wouldnt trade my husband or daughter for the world....
But to answer your question... Yes I do...
Good Luck & Best Wishes
2007-09-21 23:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by marcie1997 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think most people do. But what is your real question? So what if you are going to see him. If you are happily married there shouldn't be a problem. Are you wanting something to happen between the two of you? Nothing but trouble then.
2007-09-21 23:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by kendi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-- only if crossing paths. (I answered your other? in detail)Now there is another guy years later (not my 1st love) that broke my heart into a million pieces. Him I think of. Usually not fondly but think of usually yearly on/near his b-day ironically, coming up.
Would I want to see him-honestly yes. As an observer only. Only if he did not see /recognize me in the hopes he was having an off day...and only to know what he got out of life and was he happy. . Which I assume he is, but I would not want to talk to him.
2007-09-21 23:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She played the saxophone. I think of her every time I hear a sax solo. I did see her again. Both married, met each other's families. Was lots of fun. Spouses enjoyed it too.
2007-09-21 23:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you asked the same question before,under a different name,didnt you? why are you bothering to post?you just want someone to say its okay to cheat,dont you?
well go,and see what happens.i think you have made your mind up already,and no one here can say a thing.you are a silly lady if you do,but i already know what you will do.you will go,and you will lose everything.good luck,you will need it.
2007-09-21 23:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by misscantbetold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋